Straight Male turned on by guys?

Hi,

I'm a 21 year old male and I am facing the same thing. I'm sexually attracted to some hot guys, however that attraction doesn't last. Fantasizing about a kiss or sex with a 'real' man (real as in not on any screen) makes me cringe. However gay porn turns me on. Straight porn turns me on as well but not so much. Then when I fantasize about 'real' girls I get turned on. But same doesn't happen with 'non-real' girls. Plus all those things you mentioned about getting muscular, gettting teased gay n all... Those are applicable to me as well.

CONCLUSION: If you can somehow relate to what I'm saying , I'll say that you are bi-curious. You are experiencing these secual attractions due to 2 major reasons:
1.Confidence issues
2.Urge to experiment (mainly curiousness) - all of us pass through this phase.

Solution:
Don't worry . You will remain straight . Bicurious is just a phase. However don't ever stop yourself from being "you". If you feel like experimenting go ahead n do it. After that decide which way you wanna choose. As far as my experience says, you will continue to be a straight jock. Then its up to you. Good luck.
N never trouble yourself too much about your sexuality. It's not that important . take it as it comes.

So many of the responses have been right on. My statement is just to realize what society seems to be realizing today--sexuality is somewhat fluid. It is quite alright to be heterosexual with a slight or significant desire of homosexuality, whatever your percentage might be.

I am bisexual and describe myself as 100% 100% both ways. Probably your percentage would be much less, such as 85% straight and 15% gay or whatever, and this would be something that is relatively common.

You don't have to be gay to get aroused by another man and fantasize about him
All males look and are really turned on. But most want it. We are just sexual beings.
It doesn't mean you are bisexual. Don't tag yourself. Just enjoy.

Good point about that topic.

I think both can look really sexy. Therefore it's really nice to be able to see women in a sexy dress or guys that are muscular ans sexy in speedos.

have you looked at what 'theitman' has said?

Well it is evident that you're as normal as most people. This just shows that human sexuality is fluid. I'm in the same boat as you and I felt very bad at the beginning because I never identified as gay or bisexual. After talking to a sex therapist I learned that it is common for straight people to be aroused by same sex thoughts and images. That doesn't make you gay or bi, what makes you gay is your identity and who you truly fall in love with. Read about the Kinsey scale and search for articles related to this same type of issue. You will find very useful information, even posts of other people that share your experience.

I was fondled by an older kid when I was young. I forgot all about it until I became a alcoholic and drug addict. Then one night I recalled it and the euphoric recall set in. Sometime later I was house sitting a house and found that the guy had a large gay porn collection, I watched it and found it very arousing mostly because it was feeding into my growing sex addiction where you always like more, and different. A year later while super loaded I had the chance with an old gay man and I went down on him for about 8 seconds. I instantly realized there is HUGE disconnect between reality and visual fantasy. The next morning, hung over form booze and cocaine I was so consumed with guilt and shame unlike anything I had ever known, I gave suicide about a 1 minute thought. I still find gay porn stimulating from time to time, but the reality is an entirely different thing. I dont like the touch or feel, or anything to with men physically. I dont love men in the wya love women, I dont the same emotional connection. So in summery I think visual stimulation is a long long way away from reality.

I secretly see guys in public and wonder what they look like bent over or their face turns me on and watch gay porn and think about what i would do if i was there!

Do u ever fantasize about being blindfolded and f*****g a cute guy bent over then take your blindfold off before you blow it and realizing you were f*****g a guy? I do. I also want people to watch while im handcuffed bent over and a attractive guy f**ks me and makes me like it.

me too I experienced this til now

you're probably bisexual,as am I. you don't have to be equally attracted to both to be bi. I'm more attracted to women but when I see a muscular guy with his shirt off, damn I get aroused!

I, like many here, believe that everyone is somewhere along the sexual spectrum from 100% gay to 100% straight. Many of us continue to be arousable, to coin a phrase, by the same sex, and that often plays into our heterosexual activities. I'm sure the reverse is true as well. Most importantly, as someone else here has pointed out -- it really doesn't matter what "bits" are on the outside, does it? Everyone wants to feel loved, special and attractive in someone else's eyes -- even if only for a few, anonymous minutes.

stop watching porn. it sounds like you're in the process of becoming gay/bi because of it. on straight porn, you first go in to watch the hot woman, but you're seeing the sex act and your brain is also associating pleasure with the penis/male (cuz that's also what you see and climax to)

There is something to be said for this idea. Sexuality is made up of so much more than simple desire for one sex or the other. As we accrue images and fantasies from movies and TV -- and yes, pornography -- things we hear from friends, personal experiences (and growing personal NEEDS) help us find our way to a means of satisfying and clarifying our innate sexual desires. These desires are often at odds with what we "thought" we should want, or the way we "thought" we would be, sexually speaking. Human sexuality is the most wonderful -- and terrible -- gift could we have been given. No instructions, but lots of expectations, right? Try not to prejudge the rightness of what you feel by comparing them to other's ideas of what is "right". Be kind and compassionate to yourself and your desires, whatever they might be and however they express themselves.