I am a virgin and tried to have my first time sex last night. I am ready and very relaxed because he give me oral until I had orgasm two times. actually I am really wet but he still put a lot of lube at my opening. With all these, I expect the pain will be very little even he is in a very large size. when he started to push in, the vagina wall like strerch beyond the limit and almost split, it hurt too much and I ask him to stop. Why this still can happened? even his head not enter me yet. Will it be worse when the penis really enter me?
Hi Guest,
The tissues in your vagina are not used to be stretched by his penis. Even being wet and using lube, it can still hurt. Some depends upon the size of your boyfriend but vagina's also come in different sizes too.
Go slow and gentle. That's about all you can do the first time. Remember too, that your hymen can tear as well so bleeding is possible.
Hope it helps.