So my boyfriend and I spent hours two nights ago being sexually active and he fingered me for a good amount of time. Every once in a while I would get dry but he would continue and it started hurting. After we were done, it was really swollen, raw, and it hurt a lot. The next morning it was almost swollen shut and it hurt a lot. Later that day I had worn a dress that required me to wear panty hose and they rode up a lot causing them to rub most of the time in the swollen and raw area. Now it itches and hurts a lot. Now I get yeast infections easily and I'm wondering if it's just another one, or is it normal for it to hurt this bad.
If your bf is fingering you too rough, tell him to stop!
Better yet, show him how. If you put up with this abuse, you get what you get.
You can always carry a little bottle of personal lube or even lip intensive care vasolene to have a little lube available.
But if you put up with this kind of inconsiderate behavior...like letting him continue when it bothers you, well, it's your own fault.
Teach him that "no" means "no", "stop" means "now", and "not so rough" means "this is your last warning."
Good luck.
Better yet, show him how. If you put up with this abuse, you get what you get.
You can always carry a little bottle of personal lube or even lip intensive care vasolene to have a little lube available.
But if you put up with this kind of inconsiderate behavior...like letting him continue when it bothers you, well, it's your own fault.
Teach him that "no" means "no", "stop" means "now", and "not so rough" means "this is your last warning."
Good luck.
Sorry but that wasn't what I was asking. And I have no problem with it. I just need to know if that kind of irritation will give you a yeast infection is all. Thanks.
Sorry but that isn't what I asked.
I don't mind he does.
I like it.
But it got a little rough and it hurt it happens.
I need to know if that much irritation is normal to cause a yeast infection.
Under the circumstances that I get them easily, anywhere from the wrong soap getting down there in the shower, a thong rubbing the wrong way, when I get sick, etc.
Would that also cause it?
I don't mind he does.
I like it.
But it got a little rough and it hurt it happens.
I need to know if that much irritation is normal to cause a yeast infection.
Under the circumstances that I get them easily, anywhere from the wrong soap getting down there in the shower, a thong rubbing the wrong way, when I get sick, etc.
Would that also cause it?
Is quite possible... but I would just keep an eye on it and see a doctor if it doesn't get better in the next day or so.
Sounds like mild irritation to me.
Sounds like mild irritation to me.
The rougher your bf gets, the more uncomfortable and sore your vaginal area will be. Yes, you will swell. Been there before.
Rubbing, rubbing, rubbing on anything will eventually hurt.
But if you like it, so be it.
As far as a yeast infection goes, i am not sure about that. I know that if a couple has a lot of intercourse, the women can get what is affectionatly known as the "honeymoon syndrome" which consists of red, itchy vaginal area.
But your prob is not caused from having intercourse i know, i was just giving you an example.
Rubbing, rubbing, rubbing on anything will eventually hurt.
But if you like it, so be it.
As far as a yeast infection goes, i am not sure about that. I know that if a couple has a lot of intercourse, the women can get what is affectionatly known as the "honeymoon syndrome" which consists of red, itchy vaginal area.
But your prob is not caused from having intercourse i know, i was just giving you an example.
well no that will not cause a yeast infection bc when i was born my mother gave me one that i cant get rid of and im having the same problem right now and i am showing no signs of a yeast.... i dont know what it is but its not a yeast..... hope you find out if so help me out please ! good luck
The rougher your bf gets, the more uncomfortable and sore your vaginal area will be. Yes, you will swell. Been there before. when its dry tell him to stop and lube it