I usually just masturbate using my fingers, rubbing my clit until I orgasm. However I've been doing this for over a year and every time I masturbate it gets less and less satisfying... So I've decided I want to try fingering myself and see if it's more for me, but I'm scared it will really hurt and there will be loads of blood :( Can anyone help me and take me through the steps of doing it the least hurtful/ least blood loosing way? I'm still a vrigin btw and have a hymen, and I'm 14 (nearly 15). Could someone reply soon please? ;) Thank you! xxxx
Hi lilyx, the only thing I can tell you is to pick a time when your alone and not going to get disturbed or be on edge that someone is going to walk in on you then take a nice relaxing bath then you can either try while your in the bath or when your in your room after, start by just softly running your fingers over your whole body slowly and using your imagination that its some hot guy you fancy doing it some soft music may help too.
Start to caress your breasts and nipples then slowly move your hands down and gently stroke either side your labia then down the middle until finally your clit, as you start to get turned on your vagina will become more ready by relaxing and expanding and getting lubricated as you feel ready start to run your finger around your vagina entrance then make your finger wet by sucking it and at your own speed start to just probe the entrance.
A position you may find easiest until your use to it is to lay on your back knees drawn up feet about 2ft apart on the bed then just spread your knees as wide as you can that way it will open your vagina up more.
If you would like more help feel free to ask either by pm or on page :-)
Thanks for the help, will try it! :) xxx