We had a threesome years ago with our best friend (my cousins ex wife ) we all still talk many years later & we all wanted it and I loved seeing husband with her & would do it all again
I totally agree with you, I'm the type of person who is open to have a threesome with my partner. He wants a woman to be involved which I prefer since I'm a female. However, I'm afraid he wont see her as a "sex toy". I like your post!
for me,,is good and i will try in once only for my wife, and im looking young guy for my wife.
DON'T DO IT!! We had a threesome with my best friend. I then found out he was trying to be with her behind my back. He would say he just wanted to contact her so she can call me and set something up again. I did not believe him. I ended up not speaking to her again. We then had other threesomes with random girls. I recently told him I did not want to have any more threesomes and he got very upset at me and does not want to go out any more. I also found that he would contact women to try and set up threesomes and always say it was for me or he wanted to surprise me. I just thought he was going way over-board and put a complete stop to it. Our marriage is not the same anymore and I am really angry that he does not understand me or respect me, just because I no longer want to have threesomes.
I agree whole heartedly. We have our own special friend. She is Great!! I love my husband very much and how it happened initially doesn't matter, but what DOES matter is He and I talked it out before and AFTER! We call it our "debriefing" can't tell I am EMS. lol.
but long story short. Communication is the key. "I as the wife and she as the'other' woman...THIS is what I say is ok. This is what is not ok. What do you like? what do you want? etc.
I will say though that for us, the 1 on 1 between has always been top Notch. Now it is even better. But like I said, we are big communicators.
All that said, I am excited for our next "date". The husband and I are taking our very special friend to another city. There we will treat her to a king size hotel suite with fireplace and whirlpool. We are having a jamaican theme, so we will drink jamaican rum punch, take her out to a jamaican restaurant, and we will sit in the hot tub and see what developes. We want her to know that we care about her and want to treat her right and that she is NOT a sex toy. We value her friendship. We are also having imported in...a boquet of flowers that ONLY grow in Jamaica! So looking forward to this incredibly romantic date.
Other friends who do know...They WILL act towards her as though she is a toy. We make sure to scoop her out of that situation. You are our friend. She is our friend. Respect man. Friends will act rude towards her. but we try not to. We make sure we are less than once a month and we are careful to discuss any hurt feelings, or feelings of mistrust, jealousy etc and FIX that immediately. The whole key is confidence and communication.
OK, I need to weigh in here. My gf needed a place to live temporarily, so I asked my hubby if she could move in to the guest room. We all get along great. He had always been huggy and affectionate with her. Eventually, I thought it would be great if he could pleasure her, so i suggested it to both of them. Smart move on my part. I love it. It is so exciting to watch him do his magic on someone else.Sometimes we sleep all three together. I like to take a submissive role and let them have their "play time" in bed while I go make us breakfast, or do some chores. Sometimes I come in and help the two of them, either by adding an extra pair of lips or hands, or I get in on the action. I am not at all possessive of him. He is a gift to be shared. I think I am a natural submissive, but not in a Sand M way, I just like to share.I enjoy her, but not without him. We all have fun, share expenses, take care of each other, and I wouldn't trade this for any thing, nor would I go back to vanilla monogamy. When he makes her orgasm, I am right there with her, it is amazing, vicarious orgasms are awesome!!!! This will last a lifetime, if it is up to me.My husband loves me, and I feel like I am at least equal, if not still #1. I wish I could say I get jealous, but I honestly don't. I actually worry if he's not paying enough attention to her, and I give them lots of alone time. I wonder if we are the only threesome who actually live together in such perfect harmony?
Then just dont do it
Then dont do it and come to me...I will make youinto a perfect partner
well u may or may not have tried it already, if you and ur man really want this to happen, ask him some questions, why do you want this are you looking to replace or is it just about the fun, and last but not least would you be just as happy to have a guy join us as a female. listen to the answers very close. if he says hell no to another guy ask why, and wait for his answer, because any couple should be willing for ffm or mmf , the man does not have to do anything with the other guy, if he is just wanting sex from the other girl to please him or just to watch you and her not good. i find it good either way.
Hi,
Threesome is just great. But if both in a couple are not able to handle it, stay away from it.
I had 3P with my previous girlfriend and my current girlfriend. The first was a total failure. The second a total success.
In the first case, I requested to do it to repair our relationship. Just 2 months before our wedding, I found out she was cheating heavily on me with another man for long time. She put me through hell and I wanted to have some pleasure.
We found a girl (a friend of mine who was eager to try). We had a mind-blowing sex altogether, but eventually it all broke up apart very soon.
My girlfriend could not accept that I dedicated a single more moment or attention to the other girl. It felt like she had to stopwatches in her head measuring the fractions of seconds I was dedicating to her and to the other girl. At any time she would think I was paying one second more attention to the other girl, she would get grumpy.
We stopped, but eventually we broke up when she decided to have another lover.
I kept seeing the other girl and now we are together and we will get married soon.
Our story started with a threesome and so she is very comfortable with it. She enjoys seeing me having sex with another woman. We chose our new partners together, we plan together when to host another girl, we decide together if a girl does not satisfy us or is getting attached to me. This a big risk that requires a lot of attention. Never we want that the new girl gets a crush on me (or on her). We have very precise rules.
Recently, we found a girl who we feel very comfortable with and we propose her to live with us. Initially it will be temporarily; it may become permanent. We don't want to keep trying new girls, need to adjust and continuously. We think is also healthier.
Our experience is bringing us together like never before. We are madly in love with each other. Hope this dream will never stop.
Good luck to everybody wanting to try