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hello ....I know many of us here had an abortion....Yes , I understand why....women who underwent abortion 90 percent of it did it because lack of support from their boyfriend.
I am 29 now and I had abortion when I was 22, I did it because I wasn't ready and I don't know how to raise it and besides it was just 24 days.And the most painful was my boyfriend ignore after I inform him that it seems I am pregnant.I shouldn't have done it if he was there to give me an assurance that he's coming back. I have no regrets why I did it because if I keep it I would be living with a miserable life and so with my baby for he/she might grow up illegitimate which I don't want it to happen. My boyfriend got married to somebody after he knew what I did but i never knew he got mad at me.Since that abortion happened , 7 years of anger and hatred I felt with my boyfriend.After 7 years we met....now he blame on me but i blame him why he took me for granted the time i needed him most.He cried a lot and asking forgiveness, too late for him to apologize, I lived my life fully this time whereas he is living with a miserable married life.It's just so painful that we still love each other but he's already married.Now after that incident I got traumatized and I have commitment-phobic...I have fear of having a relationship again and left me in the midst of difficulty.....I've been through a lot of relationships but I don't trust anymore.....
to those who had abortion......let us think that it is just a blessing in disguise ....let us move on and think for the best in life....let us not think of those regrets we made....everything happens for a reason.....Now I choose to be single ......

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