Too much anal sex?

So i had anal sex for the first time about 10 minutes ago :-D

It was amazing.
First i jumped the gun a little and put to much in to quickly and it hurt her so badly that i had to take it out.
After a minute we tried again. Go in VERY slowly. Soon she was begging me to go faster.

Used a condom and did not cum, plus she is on her period and i heard blood kills sperm.


No need to be worried right.. ?

I'm sorry but "almost all women likes anal sex" is not true, unless you've talked to almost all women. Anyway, I don't understand how a woman can have an orgasm from her anus. How does that happen? I've always assumed that this form of sex was a preference for men and women just let them do it. Why does a man want anal instead of normal vaginal? Is it just because of the tightness of the anus? Also, doesn't the penis smell of the poo and pus in the anal canal? That is so nasty. I'm sorry it sounds gross but I'm just being real. Also what about bowel movements? How do you keep your anus from having poo in it? What the heck! I don't get it. Never had it obviously so I don't understand it.

I hope this may help both of you achieve the best sex possible.

Pls read this thread and let me know if the technique needs any improvement. here https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/how-long-till-anal-sex-feels-good-for-my-female-partner&hpr=HOW_LONG_TILL_ANAL_SEX_FEELS_GOOD_FOR_MY_FEMALE_PARTNER

my boyfriend and I have tried anal sex three or four times and it doesn't hurt or anything but I don't get much enjoyment out of it. We've talked about investing in some toys to improve this. any suggestions?

my wife and I like to try new things in the sex world we tried anal sex for few times long time a go, and we both like it a lot, but my wife now is pregnant and we don't want to take the risk for having anal sex so if anyone knows "is there any effect from anal sex on the pregnancy?"

my wife and like to try new things in the sex world, we had anal sex few times long time ago, and we both like it but my wife is pregnant now and we don't want to take the risk for having anal sex so, is there any effect from anal on the pregnancy?

chakubanga wrote:

adventuresofava wrote:

OK, YOU GUYS SOUND PRETTY EXPERIENCED HERE.

MY HUSBAND AND I TRIED IT A FEW WEEKS AGO AND IT FELT GOOD A FEW INCHES IN, BUT GOT REALLY TIGHT AND HE KEPT PUSHING, AND HIS HEAD "POPPED" IN AND THAT HURT-
BUT HE FREAKED OUT AND PULLED OUT COMPLETELY REALLY FAST AND THAT HURT MORE THAN ANY PAIN I HAVE EVER FELT- AND I LITERALLY MADE HIM LEAVE THE ROOM, CRIED, AND BLED EVERYTIME I HAD A BOWEL MOVEMENT FOR THE NEXT FEW DAYS.

I LOVE TO HAVE HIS FINGERS IN THERE AND LICKING, BUT HOW DO WE MAKE ANAL SEX EASIER??????? AND FEEL BETTER????

HE GETS REALLY EXCITED ABOUT ME WANTING HIM TO COME INSIDE MY ASS, BUT ITS ACTUALLY GETTING HIS RATHER THICK PENIS IN THERE THATS THE PROBLEM.

AND NEITHER ONE OF US HAS HAD ANAL SEX BEFORE WITH ANYONE.


ON TOP OF THAT, ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR LETTING ME GET INSIDE OF HIM???
HE LOVES IT WHEN I STROKE AND LICK AND KISS BETWEEN HIS ANUS AND BALLS, BUT IS NERVOUS ABOUT LETTING ME IN.

ESPECIALLY AFTER SEEING HOW MUCH HE HURT ME IN HIS FIRST ATTEMPT INSIDE ME..

I hope this may help both of you achieve the best sex possible.
Pls read this thread and let me know if the technique needs any improvement. here https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/how-long-till-anal-sex-feels-good-for-my-female-partner&hpr=HOW_LONG_TILL_ANAL_SEX_FEELS_GOOD_FOR_MY_FEMALE_PARTNER

Agree!
I want to know the reasons, too. :D

I'm so embarrassed when it come to sex....I'm not in a relataionship, but i do please myself i tried anal and i loved it, I can't even bring myself to tell anyone i play with myself never mind do anal playing.

I used to find it so disgusting, but then realise its just the same as vaginal after women have their period their tubes are clean same as the back package, All you have to do if find a time inbetween going to the toilet, if your a morning peron by late even, you should be clean. It hurt like hell the first time and i bleed but then i read up on it and just used a heck of alot of lube.

Guest wrote:

WomenAssLover wrote:

Almost all women likes anal sex. But the fequency they want to engage in it varies from 'almost every day' to 'one-two times a month'.

The key is to find a man that will match woman's anal sex prefferable frequency.

I'm sorry but "almost all women likes anal sex" is not true, unless you've talked to almost all women. Anyway, I don't understand how a woman can have an orgasm from her anus. How does that happen? I've always assumed that this form of sex was a preference for men and women just let them do it. Why does a man want anal instead of normal vaginal? Is it just because of the tightness of the anus? Also, doesn't the penis smell of the poo and pus in the anal canal? That is so nasty. I'm sorry it sounds gross but I'm just being real. Also what about bowel movements? How do you keep your anus from having poo in it? What the heck! I don't get it. Never had it obviously so I don't understand it.

Its true anal isn't for everyone.
Men and woman have a G spot in their anus , that is how you can orgasm, It's not dirty if your timing is right a good couple of hours after your last bathroom break, use plenty of lube it may hurt at first just like it did when you have your first vaginal sex, don't forget to stretch it first with a little playing with fingers etc could use a comdom or a good shower/wash after to clean him up and yourself.

ralston wrote:

chakubanga wrote:

adventuresofava wrote:

OK, YOU GUYS SOUND PRETTY EXPERIENCED HERE.

MY HUSBAND AND I TRIED IT A FEW WEEKS AGO AND IT FELT GOOD A FEW INCHES IN, BUT GOT REALLY TIGHT AND HE KEPT PUSHING, AND HIS HEAD "POPPED" IN AND THAT HURT-
BUT HE FREAKED OUT AND PULLED OUT COMPLETELY REALLY FAST AND THAT HURT MORE THAN ANY PAIN I HAVE EVER FELT- AND I LITERALLY MADE HIM LEAVE THE ROOM, CRIED, AND BLED EVERYTIME I HAD A BOWEL MOVEMENT FOR THE NEXT FEW DAYS.

I LOVE TO HAVE HIS FINGERS IN THERE AND LICKING, BUT HOW DO WE MAKE ANAL SEX EASIER??????? AND FEEL BETTER????

HE GETS REALLY EXCITED ABOUT ME WANTING HIM TO COME INSIDE MY ASS, BUT ITS ACTUALLY GETTING HIS RATHER THICK PENIS IN THERE THATS THE PROBLEM.

AND NEITHER ONE OF US HAS HAD ANAL SEX BEFORE WITH ANYONE.


ON TOP OF THAT, ANY SUGGESTIONS FOR LETTING ME GET INSIDE OF HIM???
HE LOVES IT WHEN I STROKE AND LICK AND KISS BETWEEN HIS ANUS AND BALLS, BUT IS NERVOUS ABOUT LETTING ME IN.

ESPECIALLY AFTER SEEING HOW MUCH HE HURT ME IN HIS FIRST ATTEMPT INSIDE ME..

I hope this may help both of you achieve the best sex possible.
Pls read this thread and let me know if the technique needs any improvement. here https://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/how-long-till-anal-sex-feels-good-for-my-female-partner&hpr=HOW_LONG_TILL_ANAL_SEX_FEELS_GOOD_FOR_MY_FEMALE_PARTNER

Agree!
I want to know the reasons, too. :D

The more lube the better, you can never have enough, warm up first from one finger up to his size etc.

Thank you for discussing this topic openly here. I have a girlfriend who suggested we had anal sex, as she had tried before and liked it. I was concerned about hygiene, but washing before and urinating after took care of my concerns. I have to admit I loved it. Feels tighter, and more 'forbidden', so it is more exciting. And, as some of you describe, her orgasms are far stronger. Also, there seems to be a "domination" vs. "submissive" psychological component here. The thought that if was not careful I could hurt my girfriend makes me feel dominant. The fact she submits to being vulnerable is also exciting to me and contributes to longer, fuller ejaculation for me.

I will appreciate input on a lingering concern I have of the possibility of hemorroids. Though I cannot place it, I seem to recollect that hemorroids are more common among active gay men, pointing to a possible connection with anal sex. And what about penis lenght? After all, the rectum is only about 5 inches long, and I am about 9 inches long. So am going about 4 inches into her colon?

My girlfriend loves anal to the point she dosent want to waste a hard on vaginally when it could be in her ass. We stopped having vaginal almost a year ago for strictly anal only. We were having anal and vaginal from the second date she was in cowgirl and put me in her ass and started squirting and cumming she loved it. We had anal everytime we got together just not anal only yet.
After about six months she asked me to finish in her ass everytime we had sex. I said well why dont we do anal only she was fine with that but she thought she might like to have a vaginal drive by from time to time but she never actually asked for one.

She only masturbates anally or DP but always with something in her ass. She masturbates 6 to 12 times a day anally she loves it so much. When we are together her ass gets a real work out she says I am alot rougher than she is to herself.
She told me she never wants vaginal sex again which is fine with me her body used to get so tence from vaginal I made her bleed everytime we had vaginal I could tell it made her sore having me in her vagina she is so much more relaxed and less tence during anal.
She brags to all her girlfriends how great anal sex is and that we don't have vaginal at all I think that's hot I think it's pretty rare that both partners love anal and no vaginal at all.
We stopped having vaginal 8 months into our relationship. I got her pregnant pretty soon after we got together she miss carried it, it's nice to not have to worry about knocking her up. She decided to stop birth control completely since we have no vaginal and no chance of vaginal sex since neither of us want that

The last time we had vaginal sex was 3/23/10. We Had anal sex 6 times that day and she got sore so we had vaginal for what was the last time. We get hot thinking how long it's been. We only plan to have vaginal if we decide to have children and she said we would have to have anal also. If we had vaginal she said she would have to have a dildo or butt plug in to orgasm.
Yea she loves anal

It sounds like you will need to get lube and a toy to loosen up. You want to relax and allow him in. Its when you tense up that it will hurt. You can order a butt plug, they come in different sizes, until you work up to his size. Its so intimate to let you husband to have that part of you. Most men will do anything the can to be able to as its such a differnt feeling. I have done it on the side of the bed with him in the doggy style position and allowed him to go really slow and get deep in me reminding him that i am submitting to him completely like a good wife should. I have also got on top and rode him in my butt, which really caused him to orgasm. I think its the fact that he knows that he is really in control and i allow it as when i relax into it, it gives me pleasure beyond explanation. I am so into it, i think the next step for me is to let him use more toys on me while he is in me. I love it. I love it when he cums and feel the heat and sweat of him. I love it alot and you will too once you relax into in, does everyone agree?

There is NO evidence that blood kills sperm.

There are millions of people alive in the world to disprove that myth.... they were all conceived during a period.



You are right to GO SLOW if attempting anal, and to use PLENTY OF LUBE...

YOU may find it "amazing" but not everyone does. Plus, I doubt if your gf would give it as high marks as you do.

adventuresofava:

My husband and I had the same problem. The only way for him to get his penis in my butt without it hurting me, is if he goes in semi-hard but mostly soft.

If your next attempt hurts tell him not to pull out, but lay still and add more lube. If it still hurts pull out slowly...very slow, or your muscles could contract and really hurt you both. :-(

Guys are funny about the masculinity of having "something" in their butt. Pull the cute, flirty card, and encourage him. When he gives you the opportunity, give him serious props! Tell him how exciting it was for you, etc.

FYI: Not everyone is compatible for anal sex. For those who are it takes practice and patience. Best of luck!