First of all you are not the guy in the porn so forget what he can do.
It sounds like you're doing fine at cleaning it and getting the foreskin back. Just keep on pulling it back as far as you can and try to get it back a little more each time. You don't have to be able to pull it back easily to survive in life, it's just more fun and more pleasurable if you can. So if you want to, keep working at it.
I stretched the opening in mine by inserting the little finger of each hand while in tthe shower and stretching the opening. It takes months to get it really loose. I progressed to larger fingers and then more of them until I was able to get four fingers inside. At that point my foreskin went back easily without any pain until it was restricted by my frenulum. Eventually that tore several times during sex until it was no longer a problem.
My head was severely sensitive too and eventually I got tired of that and desensitized it. But doing that is uncomfortable at first because it IS sensitive so you have to want to do it. I can tell you that being able to caress and manipulate the bare head with my fingers during masturbation is very pleasurable and in my opinion it was well worth it. When I did that, pulling back my foreskin was no longer a problem, my foreskin had been stretched for quite some time and I could easily pull it all the way back so the inner skin was stretched completely down tthe shaft. Probably like you have seen in porn.
To desensitize it I pulled it all the way back and cleaned the whole thing with cotton soaked in rubbing alcohol. The alcohol feels cold at first, then it feels hot and tingles but it doesn't hurt or harm anything. Letting the alcohol dry so that everything was smooth and I could slide my fingers over it without sticking to it. You have to touch every bit of it and keep doing that to finally desensitize it. It's not really bad at all. You have control over what your fingers are doing so only do as much as you can stand. Soon it will not be as sensitive and you will want to do it more often because it gets you really turned on and you will masturbate while doing it. I began to masturbate by rubbing the bare head while it was dry and I have never gone back to sliding my foreskin up and down or using any kind of lube. Dry feels too good to want to give it up. Pulling the foreskin tightly back while doing it adds a lot to the pleasure. The inner side of the foreskin is loaded with stretch sensitive nerves that give you great pleasure as it is stretched.
So just have fun doing it. It's yours to enjoy.
The white stuff is called smegma. It is normal.
Smegma is a natural, normal, harmless, and healthy substance. It is a mixture of exfoliated skin and skin oils. Smegma collects under the foreskin. It is normally white in color.
It can get irritating if it stays for a long time without being washed away, so it is good practice to wash under the foreskin periodically.
Accumulated smegma may get hardened and difficult to remove if it stays a longtime such as under a foreskin that is not retracted. Olive oil has been recommended for softening and removing hardened smegma.
It is really easy to clean out your foreskin without retracting it. Here are two ways:
1. Urine is a sterile substance when it leaves the body so it is an excellent washing agent. Pinch the tip of your foreskin shut when you pee. Let the urine fill up your foreskin. You will see your foreskin balloon because of the urine inside. Then release the tip and all of the urine inside your foreskin will come gushing out and clean out whatever is inside. This is best done in the shower as it tends to be messy.
2. Get a rubber bulb ear syringe from a drug store, pharmacy, or chemist’s shop. These are designed to squirt warm water into ear canals to clean them out. They also work great for cleaning out foreskins. Fill the ear syringe with warm (not hot) water and then insert the tip of the syringe into your foreskin. Then squeeze the bulb and a jet of warm water will squirt into your foreskin and clean out whatever is inside.
If you want a foreskin that is easily retractable you will need to do some stretching to make the tip of the foreskin wider.
When your penis is erect, gently pull your foreskin back against the head of the penis. As the head attempts to pass through the foreskin it will stretch the skin a little. Do this every day and in a few weeks or months your foreskin will widen and you will be able to retract your foreskin. Do NOT force retraction.
It works by tissue expansion. Stretching skin induces “mitosis” which is a word that means “division of cells”. New skin cells are formed and the skin expands. The increase in size is permanent. Be patient and let mitosis do its work.
This rocks for two reasons. one being I thought I was the only freaking guy who had this happen to him and we have the same size noodle LMAO. I'm 16, I'm in a the exact same situation and I have no bloody idea how to remedy it. I have a sex obsessed girlfriend who is very rookie and every time we go to do it, I can't even maintain an erection to finish because it hurts THAT MUCH. We've been going out for a month now and I still haven't told her why it keeps happening, I didn't really understand myself. I'm beginning to panic because I can't pleasure her for long enough or is good for her self esteem. If you found the solution to your problem, please share! Much appreciated
Hi Guest:
Put on a condom to protect the head or use some personal lubricant.
You are blessed with a protective, highly-innervated, erogenous foreskin. Many unforeskinned guys would envy your foreskin. You display great wisdom in wanting to avoid circumcision,
You should thank your parents for protecting your physical integrity. Because of your physical integrity you will be able to have sex the way nature intended it.
It is normal for the glans to be sensitive because your foreskin has been protecting it for your whole life.
The foreskin is there to protect the head of the penis and keep it moist and sensitive. If it hurts, don't touch it. Keep your foreskin forward to protect the head. It will probably get less tender later.
I don't think anything is wrong with your penis. It sounds normal to me. The head is supposed to be sensitive.
There is no reason for you to touch the head so just don't touch it. Pull your foreskin forward to cover the head to protect it and you should be fine.
Masturbation works best if you keep the foreskin forward where it covers and protects the head. The sensitivity makes masturbation feel great.
You do not have to retract your foreskin to receive oral. The foreskin is filled with nerves and loves to be sucked. Just tell your girlfriend to not pull back your foreskin and keep it forward and suck on the foreskin.
Make sure that your partner is well lubricated when you have sex. You have the option to wear a condom for protection.
I gotta know about sometimes I'm having wet dream I don't know why sometimes and also my penis head sensitive though when my penis is eract it's getting bend down I'm mean head down. I don't know why , please let me know .