I am really worried,
Me and my boyfriend have not been able to have sex for about 5 months now (which is affecting our relationship badly as i feel like a failure!!!) This is because everytime he tried to enter me i am in too much pain and it burns.
He can arouse me with his hands and i am definately wet enough and in the mood and the he cannot enter me :-(
I tried it today and let him go the whole way as I thought it would stop me from feeling like i was failing and it hurt and burnt then after he came i had a little blood when i wiped and it burnt so much when i peed i cried.
He felt bad which made it even worse!!!
I now have pain in my stomach, across where my belly button is and dont know why.
If it helps i am due on my period tomorrow and am in my 7 day break.
I have had 3 failed thrush treatments and am returning for swabs on friday.
I am also on antibiotics for an ongoing chest infection.
I really need some help as its making me angry and depressed and affecting our 1 year 4 month relationship :-(
someone help please anything will help!!!! x
If you get wet with him fingering you but he burns trying to get inside you may want to lube him up. If you are wet enough, use your vaginal fluids to rub and lube him up. This is pleasurable for him too. Your natural juices would be best for your body. This may soften him up to slide in a little better.
An alternative would be KY. There are several types - blue cap is cool, red gets warm. If you are inflamed, you should try the blue cap first. Put a towel under you and use plenty of it on him. Basically get him dripping but don't finish him off before you get some. This would let him slide right in.
Either way, going in he needs to go slow. Almost teasing you with head in, head out then 1" in then out, going in deeper each time you are comfortable. Don't let him thrust into you because you might get inflamed again. Just let him penetrate slowly and stop to enjoy the feeling. I would absolutely avoid ejaculating inside you until you have had several successful sessions. Your body needs to heal and get used to him inside again. The feeling did eventually pass and now its just get her wet and slide on in. So take it slow and you should both work through it fine.
Hello and I'm sorry to hear that ... I also have the same issue ..only a that mine is right after we finish having sex ;(,,, my abdominal was i fire it hurts me so bad that it has been at least fore then 5 times my husband has to take me to the e.r ..how embarrassing to show up at the hospital right after having sex ..the first 3 times I went dr said it was a kidney infection anD treated me with antibiotics and also yeast infection because according to them thats were it all began ... After the 4 time my husband was so fed up with it that asked the dr to do as many exams because something just wasn't right !!!! he took me to one of the best hospital in town and .. After cat scans, ultrasounds and blood work ... The doctor said I had to have an emergency operation because according to him it was my appendix ??? Really ... well right before I head to the surgery room .. one of the test came bk with cyst in my ovaries ... And that explained the burning and crying out loud cause i was in so much pain and at some point I even bled too......IT THIS HELPS U MAY NEED TO CHECK WITH UR DR AND ASK THEM TO DO SEVERAL ULTRASOUNDS THE VIGinal One as well .... DONT LET THIS INTERFIER WITH UR MARRIAGE ..... MY HUSBAND TILL THIS DAY HAS BEEN VERY SUPPORTIVE AND WE ALSO HAVE GONE A LONG TIME WITH OUT HAVING SEX ... CAUSE HE DOESN'T WANT TO SEE ME GO THROUGH PAIN ...... BUT THEN AGAIN WHO SAID LOVE HURTS ???... I really hope you get to figur. Out ur issue .. And MAY GOB BLESS U AND UR HUSBAND ...