hey, im a virgin and i really dont want to be. ive masturbated since i was 12 and i am sick of it. my boyfriend and i were going to have sex but he chickened out. its really stressing me out and its all i think about :( what do i do?
Dear ceffyl13
You know its good to be a virgin and you should be proud of that but if you really want to have sex with your boyfriend....ask yourself are u ready to do this?...is he the one?? do u love him?....do u know how to protect yourself when having safe sex??....because when having sex its best you do it with the person you truly love because in the end its gonna be worth it, if he chickened out mabe he wasn't ready and its best to give it time. It's best to do it when both partners are ready to do this without pressure. Hope this helps...
Good Luck to you and your boy friend
You know its good to be a virgin and you should be proud of that but if you really want to have sex with your boyfriend....ask yourself are u ready to do this?...is he the one?? do u love him?....do u know how to protect yourself when having safe sex??....because when having sex its best you do it with the person you truly love because in the end its gonna be worth it, if he chickened out mabe he wasn't ready and its best to give it time. It's best to do it when both partners are ready to do this without pressure. Hope this helps...
Good Luck to you and your boy friend
Cant really help you but i kind of know how you feel,I had been seeing someone for some years i myself had masturbated all the time just wanting to have sex with this girl when we got into bed to have sex it just never happened,I felt so embarrased as the feeling was my fault,But as time went on it just happened,Waiting is a pain but its worth it.
Its not all it seems it would be anyways the first time always sucks but gets better! just give it time you cant push someone that doesnt want to have sex when the time is right for both of you is when you will have sex so until then just stick to masturbation it is very natural!