im 17 years old and im a virgin. atleast i think i am. i broke my hymen when i was 15. ive been masturbating since i was 11. recently i have been masturbating less but its hard for me to climax. i like to stimulate my clitoris but i cant climax. is that a problem? :$ ?
xoxotmv,
I hope I can help, because I'm almost 17 and like you I have been masturbating since I was 11 or 12. If you haven't had intercourse then you can honestly say you're a virgin (I am too). I usually masturbate 4-5 times a week, but some weeks I might do it 10 times (I've been told that's ok) some weeks only 1 or 2 times (also ok). Lots of things effect if I climax. I've found that if it takes me more than 4-5 minutes, usually I just have something on my mind, even though I'm trying to focus on the climax.
I still like clitoris stimulation, but I since I recently discovered my g-spot, it's more like foreplay. My g-spot is just inside my vagina, (barely one knuckle in) on the upper wall. Since you've lost your hymen it should be easy to find, when you push on it it feels to your finger like a sponge, but inside it makes you feel sort of like you need to pee, but in a VERY good way.
Hope that helps,
Linda G.
I hope I can help, because I'm almost 17 and like you I have been masturbating since I was 11 or 12. If you haven't had intercourse then you can honestly say you're a virgin (I am too). I usually masturbate 4-5 times a week, but some weeks I might do it 10 times (I've been told that's ok) some weeks only 1 or 2 times (also ok). Lots of things effect if I climax. I've found that if it takes me more than 4-5 minutes, usually I just have something on my mind, even though I'm trying to focus on the climax.
I still like clitoris stimulation, but I since I recently discovered my g-spot, it's more like foreplay. My g-spot is just inside my vagina, (barely one knuckle in) on the upper wall. Since you've lost your hymen it should be easy to find, when you push on it it feels to your finger like a sponge, but inside it makes you feel sort of like you need to pee, but in a VERY good way.
Hope that helps,
Linda G.
yes ur dieing