Wanting to get pregnant immediately after abortion

Are you still out there? I know this feeling. I felt like I was under spiritual attack. It is entirely bizarre and I am headspun over my abortion (one month ago). I am 38, and was praying for fertility, and my prayer was answered! It's horrible. I had an incredible amount of pressure from my mother believe it or not that I should not have listened to; I should have listened to God. When you mention that you have had thoughts of suicide, it just made me think about a deliverance pastor that I know that believes that abortion invites a spirit of death, so that may be something you need to deal with, to tell that spirit to leave you in Jesus' name. I know I sound like a nut bag here, but actually I am a highly educated, typically stable person who had this exceptionally weird and tragic experience. I pray that we all heal and are blessed with children in the future if that is what we want.

I did it out of guilt. Had a baby boy. Yes, I felt terrible after my abortion; got health insurance and had another baby. Does that make me bad. Back when I had the abortion they made it so easy it was like getting a flu shot. No counseling; no exploring of options. They rushed you in and out. I did it then felt terrible....

I'm 17 years old and it's sad to say but 2 years ago I was pregnant. My boyfriend (at that time) and I were dating for 2 years. I thought that I would keep the baby because I made the decesion to have sex. But werw we told our parents, they basically made the decesion for us. I got the abortion 2 years ago. if any women see this, you should really think about this. I'm still having difficulties getting over it, especially since I'm still in high school there is many pregnant girls or girls who already had a baby. I feel like I'm ready to have a baby but I feel like I don't deserve one. 

hi m 6 week pragnent doctoer advice me to do abortion for medical reason .i abort my baby today i want my baby back.  Is it possible to get pragnent immediately after abortion

 

Do you mind me asking what the medical reason was? I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Yes, I think it is possible to get pregnant pretty quickly after an abortion, although it will probably take a couple of months for your body and hormones to get back to normal. I know it's painful. I'm so sorry. I did it for no good reason at all, it's a long story. And I am hoping for the same thing. God bless you!

Wow how selfish....you ddnt want that one now you want another?

I don't think that you should judge.  There are many horrible things that lead women to make such an evil decision.   Repentance and hoping for another chance, and wishing you could take it back, are not selfish things, they are human things.  Positive things.  I would have been judgmental and close-minded probably also if I hadn't gone through what I went through.  It's hard to understand if you haven't experienced it, and I pray you never do.  It doesn't excuse it, but try not to judge.  Have compassion.

Hi thanks to supporting me

I write this for someone who told me selfish if u have ectopic pragnancy what u do

Thank you! Agreed. Some of us are looking for answers to questions about our physical bodies, not opinions about morality. Please take your comments to a fundamentalist board, maybe they'd actually be useful to someone there.

I soooo relate to this subject... I feel that there are many perspectives to this subject- and we all have such different experiences. Such is life. I found out I was 7 weeks pregnant about 5 months ago... I thought I may be as I have a 4 year old ( from a previous relationship) and know what it feels like... When I confirmed that I was in fact- I felt excited and ready to have another child. But, my partner was so scared... Didn't feel ready to have a baby... Lost it emotionally... And I felt devastated. I lost my confidence- and didn't want to have another baby with out a dad. He has been so amazing to my son and I, and all I want is to have a family. I want to have his child... And I felt devastated. We were in Israel, where he grew up, meeting his family and it felt like horrible timing. Though, I wanted it so bad. I got horribly sick- morning sickness hardly describes how I felt. I was psychologically a mess- feeling conflicted for so many reasons. He suggested we get an abortion, and seemed completely adverse to the idea of having a child- and not to mention the opinions of his parents we ended up telling. We decided to go trough with the procedure. I cried, and cried... And almost told them no- just a they put me under. I woke up in the hospital bed- no longer pregnant... It makes me tear up just wringing this now. I tried to go on with our "vacation"... And cried probably daily. We returned home... Went back to our routine life and I tried to move on. But... Every time I see a small baby... Or a pregnant woman... I have a difficult time holding back the tears. I find myself feeling such deep sadness and incomparable regret. I wish I had been strong enough to stand up or myself and our baby. Now I find myself wanting to be pregnant so badly... I feel my partners sadness as well. We talk about having a child... And I have told him all of this. Several weeks ago, I started having sore breasts... And have felt exhausted. I waited for my period... And 3 days after I was supposed to start, I had bleeding start- and currently 3 days latter am having very light bleeding- some cramping- and still very sore breasts. I can't help praying that I am pregnant... And feel that I want nothing more. I feel like I am obsessing... And can think if nothing else. I think about it all day... Search the web for advise... I did take a pregnancy test last night- and it read with a very faint negative. Not sure if that is clear... Or if I should re- test and I could actually be pregnant. So... Long story short. I feel ya. This has been the most awful experience I have ever had. I want nothing more than to turn back time and be 5 months pregnant now. If anyone reads this that us questioning having a baby... If there is anything in your being that tells you to keep it... No matter how challenging that choice seems- I encourage you to be strong- to have the baby... If in your heart that is what you want. I feel like I will never forget myself... An just cant get it off my mind or heart. Best of luck and blessings to all of you ladies.

For the woman who wants another child due to an abortion. I had one when I was 15 deperatly wanted another never got her till I was 20 I had thought it would make things better but I ended up only facing what I had done more I knew exactly what I let the doctor remove from me I was holding her in my arms had a hard time getting attached to her. Have 7 children now and doesn't matter how many u have it might keep u distracted but the pain and sadness is always there . if I could go back would never went threw with it. So many nights I cry or think how old they would have been now and wonder how things would have been. So having another child immediately could just make things worse and u need to be able to get threw that so u can give yourself completely to a new baby and not be grieving over the one u lost!

I too was 40 had thought an abortion was the right thing to do.. I thought of my family I already had and the child as he/she became older and could we cope with a raging teenager when we were in our 50s. Also my health during pregnancy as I have had 2 very difficult births with my other children as well as the potential risks to the child. we decided to have an abortion taking all these factors into serious consideration. I have to admit at the time I felt a weight had been lifted off my shoulders but 24/48 hours later regretted everything I had done I mean I always said I would never want another child but now a few months on a long to have that child and I am so broody it is unreal. No one prepares you for these feelings afterwards.

Did you end up getting pregnant again? I had an abortion just over two months ago. I am 40 and was pregnant on accident and terrified. I thought I was doing something logical, but I am devastated. Not functioning. I couldn't see through the hormones and fatigue what a blessing I had. Now I want to try to get pregnant on purpose. I will probably be 41 when the baby is born- if I am blessed again at all. I know I might be reacting, but I can not bear the pain any more. I just wish I could turn back time.

After you had your baby, did you feel better? Do you look at that child as a child of an abortion mistake?

hy am 21 yrs old....i have abortion of 9 weeks on thee 9th of june . felt so bad after duing that . naw am feeling guilty.. when i come across a byb o a prgnt lady i d cry. wen i went to a dr fo a medical abortion i waznt myself... i thought i hv tot bwt it clearly but i waznt.... naw i be prgnt again.thinkin of trying myb after 3 to4 mnths just to replace nd forgve myself for what i dd