me and my girl friend are thinking about having sex. we have never had it ethier. i know you stick the penis in the vagina but where. cause isnt there like two holes or something.
Hye Avatar,
How old are you?
Yes there are two holes, one is the urethra where the urin (pee) comes out of <this is a very small hole so you would not be able to fit your penis in there. the other is the vaginal oriface. that is where your penis goes.
However if you are that uneducated about the human body/sex I HIGHLYY advise not having sex. there are WAY to many things that can happen and a lot of responsibility. PREGNANCY and STD (sexually transmitted Diseases) being the two main factors. do me a favor and take a look around the forum at just how many of the posts are related to STD's or Pregnancy.
these things can happen so quickly and some you have to deal with for the rest of your life.
As for birth control there are correct ways to use them and if you dont know how the chances of them failing are greatly increased.
I'm not trying to insult your intellegence just dont think is sounds like your quite ready for sex. there is a lot to learn. 8)
How old are you?
Yes there are two holes, one is the urethra where the urin (pee) comes out of <this is a very small hole so you would not be able to fit your penis in there. the other is the vaginal oriface. that is where your penis goes.
However if you are that uneducated about the human body/sex I HIGHLYY advise not having sex. there are WAY to many things that can happen and a lot of responsibility. PREGNANCY and STD (sexually transmitted Diseases) being the two main factors. do me a favor and take a look around the forum at just how many of the posts are related to STD's or Pregnancy.
these things can happen so quickly and some you have to deal with for the rest of your life.
As for birth control there are correct ways to use them and if you dont know how the chances of them failing are greatly increased.
I'm not trying to insult your intellegence just dont think is sounds like your quite ready for sex. there is a lot to learn. 8)
im 17 years old
Avatar,
im curious have you ever had any sex education classes? or any classes where they teach about the human body? I'm trying to get an idea of how many people on the forum have had any forman sex education classes because it seems like a lot of people ask questions about things they should have learned in sex ed or some health class.
its not your fault if you havent but it shocks me that the schools seem to leave out so much important information regarding sex that people must know about.
also where are your from. the U.S, U.K another area of the world?
Thanks 8)
im curious have you ever had any sex education classes? or any classes where they teach about the human body? I'm trying to get an idea of how many people on the forum have had any forman sex education classes because it seems like a lot of people ask questions about things they should have learned in sex ed or some health class.
its not your fault if you havent but it shocks me that the schools seem to leave out so much important information regarding sex that people must know about.
also where are your from. the U.S, U.K another area of the world?
Thanks 8)
I'm with you Bio. When I was a teen there was no such thing as sex ed and biology class taught you all about the anatomy of frogs. THAT WAS USEFUL
I have been pushing for sex ed all my adult life because I remember how ignorant we all were and I didn't like it.
I get some idea that many of the young girls I get to know at places where I go for coffee, do get some really good information in school and they don't seem to be the least bit embarrassed talking about things that would have made my mother faint. Watching their interaction with the few boys who work there, I get the impression they don't have the same sense of embarrassment my generation did about such things and I feel that maybe my lifetime efforts had some positive results.
One of the classes required the girls to carry around this interactive doll to experience what it was like caring for a baby. They all had theirs stashed on a shelf in the back room and when it started crying had to tend to it. They were all rather perplexed about having to leave the customer service area to do that. When one of the girls who was quite friendly with me was complaining, I told her if she had learned how to install a condom, that wouldn't be a problem. She replied that was the first thing they learned in class. It's really nice to see them able to talk openly about this and that they know as much as they do, but apparently the classes are not mandatory for everyone.
As you say, I am also very surprised at the lack of knowledge I see exhibited by many of the questions we see here. Apparently the sex ed classes are far from universal.
I have been pushing for sex ed all my adult life because I remember how ignorant we all were and I didn't like it.
I get some idea that many of the young girls I get to know at places where I go for coffee, do get some really good information in school and they don't seem to be the least bit embarrassed talking about things that would have made my mother faint. Watching their interaction with the few boys who work there, I get the impression they don't have the same sense of embarrassment my generation did about such things and I feel that maybe my lifetime efforts had some positive results.
One of the classes required the girls to carry around this interactive doll to experience what it was like caring for a baby. They all had theirs stashed on a shelf in the back room and when it started crying had to tend to it. They were all rather perplexed about having to leave the customer service area to do that. When one of the girls who was quite friendly with me was complaining, I told her if she had learned how to install a condom, that wouldn't be a problem. She replied that was the first thing they learned in class. It's really nice to see them able to talk openly about this and that they know as much as they do, but apparently the classes are not mandatory for everyone.
As you say, I am also very surprised at the lack of knowledge I see exhibited by many of the questions we see here. Apparently the sex ed classes are far from universal.
u.s. health class. no sex ed.
ok Avatar, Im from the States as well. when I was in highschool not to long ago i had health class and we talked a little bit on puberty and STD's . one of the family doctors, came into class and had a slide show of different types of STD's with GRAPHIC pictures that were hard to forget..... but never about hot to use birthcontrole or possibilities of sperm cells being present in pre-ejaculate (pre-cum)
I went to a parochial school for grade school so be never talked about sex there either however from what some of my friends told me. in 8th grade they had sex ed at their public grade school.
did you ever have any sex ed in Junior High?
I went to a parochial school for grade school so be never talked about sex there either however from what some of my friends told me. in 8th grade they had sex ed at their public grade school.
did you ever have any sex ed in Junior High?
Thanks for all the stuff about stds and stuff. But I really just need to know where to stick my penis.
Thanks for all the stuff about stds and stuff. But I really just need to know where to stick my penis.
aside from the anal hole there is only one other hole large enough to fit a penis. explore and you'll find it.... the medical term is called the vaginal oriface
Can u make me a video
no i cant do that..... how do you expect me to do that? anyways google some anatomy picture of the vagina and vaginal oriface also on wikepedia and you'll see what im talking about 8)
Don't even worry about it! Once you get to that stage you will be able to clearly define the area. Also, i'm positive your girlfriend will know where it goes and she can guide your penis in herself, so don't worry! But you don't need to rush into sex if your not ready, i'm 22 and still a virgin! Have you done any touching or any oral? sometimes thats a good way to start, to explore each other before you have sex. But when and if you do have sex, always use protection!
Hmm... No need to be rude or anything, but why is there a post by you from 2 days ago saying: I am a 13 yr old boy and my balls have not grown much' and yet here you are saying that you are 17??? Wierd... ?
its not the same person...this is avatar1 ... the other person is Avatar2