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Im male and im pretty unsure about my sexuality and this is why. 95% of the times I masturbate I do it like this ( it came naturally from the first time i started masturbating 4 years ago- I am 15 years old):

I always want my legs pressed close together and my buttcheeks closed together. I never do it while standing beacause its more difficult to orgasm. Always lying on the side on my back or more frequently i choose to sit. Maybe this is to arouse my prostate which i heard is the male Gspot? Is this normal?
MOst of the times I also put my hand under my balls to put presssure on that area. I dont know, it is very diffcult to get an oragsm without doing this. Many times i even mastrubate with crossed legs with my balls over them and it seems a bit weird because no other guys do it even though its easy to orgasml it seems natural to me. The thing is; i am probably biosexual. I like women a lot and i have a leg fetish and i love lesbian porn, however, even though i dont like gay porn most of the times i fantasize about penises and guys (when im not watching porn). I think this is because i have a tendancy to put pressure on my anus. However, i find anal penetration pretty weird and im not sure i would enjoy it. WIth all this in mind...Im kind of worried!

Im probably going to have sex with a girl (o btw i also enjoy straight porn) but the promblem is i dunno if i will enjoy it if i dont have all that pressure i do when i masturbate. Am I gonna be a lousy lover?.

Does anyone else masturbate in this way?
Is sex so good that you dont need the anal pressure?...Please help!!

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Hi, There is no right or wrong way to masturbate - you should do it however is most enjoyable for you. Also, it is common for boys of your age to think about the same sex and to want to look at other boys/men penises - it doesn't make you gay. Hormones are running riot in your body at the moment, and it is difficult to be certain of your sexuality at your age - things will sort themselves out in time.

As for anal penetration, many boys will try it out, although most will not continue with it. Some women do like to place a finger in the mans anus to stimulate the g-spot (prostrate), although it is not for me!

You sound a perfectly normal teenager - carry on masturbating so you enjoy it - don't worry about the way it is done in the videos - they are no more normal than you. All the best. John
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when you think of other guys penises are you curious as to what theyh look like (normal just curiosity) or are you like literally fantasizing like "ooo i want him in me right now" or "oooo i want to suck him down" cuz that is a little gay
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I stimulated myself the same way when I was your age

turned out that Im bi
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When it comes to masturbating there is no right or wrong, If you like it that that's just how it is, theres nothing wrong with that. Some women will place a finger into the mans anus during a blowjob to stimulate the prostate, but masturbate the way that feels best it's all about pleasure not judgment
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..ohh yeh a finger or certain household items up there stimulate me more when I do solo....masturbating that feels best ZIS all about pleasure...and I frequently cup my balls w/ other hand too...funny, I like to masturbate either laying down too or in the shower for easy clean up
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I'm the same way, only not really because I'm a girl
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No idea what u talking. Maybe u could post a video to teach us this new technique?
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HOw? With your leg closed?
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I do it to
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I do the same thing. Sometimes I'm in the mood to stick my finger up my anus. And it actually sometimes make me have a boner. And I'm straight. It totally cool dude don't worry
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Ya dude I'm 17 and I don't mind a finger in my butt I have gone about an inch wide and it feels great anal might seem weird but its incredible pleasure for a guy and trust me I'm straight
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its ok man. just be confident in yourself and do what feels right.

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Hope you are still reading replies to your post. Hope you are doing well. I just wanted to tell you not to worry. The only suggestion I would say (and this is from experience) is; when you are in a relationship, maybe dont masterbate as much as when you were not in a relationship. You will enjoy your partner so much more. Just see what works out best for you, I had a boyfriend that could not cum or took forever to cum, I took it personally but it was only because he masterbated every day! I know I am going off topic, but only because when you are with a partner it will be amazing, enjoy it to the fullest, not after masterbating. You will be surprised how it feels having a partner. I know thinking about being bi is scary but what a great time to be bi, 10 years ago it would have been a lot more difficult, even worse 20 + years ago. Good luck, have fun! Be a good person, thats the most important!

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can i still have sex if i can only have a good orgasim when my legs are criss cross while laying down

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