I don't know why but i think my parents don't appreciate me anymore. I'm the one who cleans up the house because mum full time works and dad is on holiday but him and my 13 year old brother do absolutely nothing to help out around the house. They just sit on their arses and either watch tv or play video games. The problem is that i constantly get yelled at for not doing enough or not finishing things. I finish everything in full but my brother always messes it up within 10 minutes. Now all of my spare time is spent in my room with my laptop and my cat. My dad thinks i don't appreciate him and mum now because when he yells at me for something i didn't do i just walk out and ignore him. I don't understand how i'm now the one who always gets yelled at when my brother does absolutely nothing to help anyone but himself and dad is the same and also constantly complaining about everything. Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? What can i do?
I asked my mum what she would think if I had depression and she just laughed and said that people who say they have depression are pathetic. The thing is though when i asked her what she would do if i was a teen mom (as a random question...the depression one was actual) she said she would be dissapointed but would still help me through it.
Well I think you just need to tell your parents that your brothers need more chores. Tell them that you DO ALL OF THEM! This will make your parents think more about what you! Trust me they appreciate you, and love you! They are just stressed and have long work days. My parents both travel almost every week. I rarely spend time with them! But you know what? I suck it up! I'm a strong girl, and I don't let not having family time get me down, because when I do get time with them I CAN TELL THEM ALL MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS!
Seriously, I don't think you are doing anything wrong! Also, don't ignore your dad! BIG NO NO! This will only make them mad and that is why your parents scream at you. Also, I think you are just a teen girl! MOODY! YOU don't sound like you are abused nor neglected. DEPRESSION IS SERIOUS, and honestly I think you are normal!XD Have fun with your parents!!!!!