I lost my virginity last week and it was a week after my period.. we didnt use contraception (which I know was stupid, i know!) but he didnt cum inside me.. he was actually only just half way inside me because it was painful for me. Is there a chance I could be pregnant? I've heard about precum.. Is it too late to get the morning after pill after 5 days? I read somewhere that it can still work 5 days after but then somewhere else that its 3 days.. Also, my periods are irregular so I'm not sure how to know if I'll miss it or not? some advice would be appreciated, thanks!!
5 days is pushing it, but you're probably not pregnant.
It's pretty widely accepted that precum doesn't contain semen. The only risk would be if he ejaculated earlier in the day and the precum forced "real" cum to come out :) Get it?
Of course not using condoms is BAD BAD BAD! And even if you do use them, you're not 100% safe. Even combined with the pill you're never 100% safe. Not trying to scare you but that's the truth.
There's an old saying : "If you don't wanna get pregnant, don't have sex..."
thanks! that made me feel better.. alright so.. do you think I should do anything? or just like.. wait and see if my period comes.. if im honest, i think i'll be ok, but its just that worry in the back of my head you know? such a horrible feeling!! my own fault though, i know!
Nothing to do but wait :) And in the meantime take it easy because it's pointless to freak out. If you miss your period take a preg. test. Not much else to it! And if one test doesn't satisfy you, take another a week later :)
And in unlikely event that you indeed are pregnant, there's an "abortion pill" so don't sweat it too much, life is too short!