My boyfriend enjoys me fingering him. I enjoy to finger him. I have gotten four fingers in him, and he has gotten four of his own fingers inside of himself while masturbating for me. (His fingers are much larger since he is male and a lot taller than me.) I am 16 and he is 17. (We live in South Carolina where the age of consent is 16) I have been fingering him for a while, and he wants me to try to fist him. I am thrilled to try, but I have concerns about hurting him. is it dangerous? I have read several opposing stories of how it can damage the sphincter muscles. Can anyone share personal experiences of it harming or not harming them? We use coconut oil (and lots of it!) as lube. Thanks for taking time for my questions. I just want to be sure it's safe before we try it.
I do not find it one bit odd. Most guys just think that anything anal is gay, which is ridiculous. My boyfriend knows what makes him feel good and I love fingering him. It's no more strange than anything else people do to pleasure each other. Honestly, anal fingering is one of the most normal things we're into. All that aside though, We do use lube. Lots of it. Wouldn't wanna hurt him. Thanks for your input