Im actualy to the point where i dont know what to say any more.. i love my friend very much and i dont feel she should have to go throught this again.. i want her to take responsiblity for her actions and grow up... i understand shes only 16 but this baby may be the highlight of her life :'( ...i feel everything happens for a reason...and its not her first time gettin pregnant.. what else is left to say to her.. she lives her life for this boy that doesnt even seem to care for her. >:( . and shes scared to tell her mother.. im just so sad about the whole situation.. i need advice.. :-(
IT is NOT YOUR CHOICE.. Point BLANK.
IF you really want to help her starighten her life out, why not discuss birth control options?
If her life is out of control, do NOT think for one second that adding a baby is going to be daisys and sugarplums.
You need to discuss future BC methods with her. Explain that birth control pills are cheaper than abortion, and they are easier to get =)
IF you really want to help her starighten her life out, why not discuss birth control options?
If her life is out of control, do NOT think for one second that adding a baby is going to be daisys and sugarplums.
You need to discuss future BC methods with her. Explain that birth control pills are cheaper than abortion, and they are easier to get =)
Is there a Pregnancy Resource Center that you know of in your area? Referring her to a place where they "know their stuff" is a good option.
You're right, having an abortion will just add onto her emotional problems and not be healthy for her at all. Adoption is always an option along with other things.
When in doubt, refer.
You're right, having an abortion will just add onto her emotional problems and not be healthy for her at all. Adoption is always an option along with other things.
When in doubt, refer.