I am a 13 year old girl and I am not sure if I am masterbating right.I hump stuff but when I put my finger in my p***y it hurts.ALOT. It does not take long for me to get aurosed but I want to know if the clearish white thing that comes out of your vagina is an orgasm. %-)
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No. You're approaching this wrong.
What you are experiencing is the natural lubrication that occurs when the vagina "sweats" under sexual stimulation.
There usually is nothing "produced" by a female orgasm.... except for intense feelings of pleasure (some say waves) and a hyper sensitivity of the clit.
The fact that you are experiencing pain or discomfort indicates that you can't be enjoying this very much.
The REASON for doing this (masturbating) is basically to encourage good feelings or to build towards a feeling of satisfaction.
If it's hurting, you're trying too hard.
My suggestion is that you not pursue this until you are somewhat older.
There are any number of self-help books that could help guide you in the right direction. Off the top of my head "Our bodies, Ourselves" and "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson come to mind. But BOTH are for mature women.
At age 13, I think you might do better speaking with your school nurse or counselor.
What you are experiencing is the natural lubrication that occurs when the vagina "sweats" under sexual stimulation.
There usually is nothing "produced" by a female orgasm.... except for intense feelings of pleasure (some say waves) and a hyper sensitivity of the clit.
The fact that you are experiencing pain or discomfort indicates that you can't be enjoying this very much.
The REASON for doing this (masturbating) is basically to encourage good feelings or to build towards a feeling of satisfaction.
If it's hurting, you're trying too hard.
My suggestion is that you not pursue this until you are somewhat older.
There are any number of self-help books that could help guide you in the right direction. Off the top of my head "Our bodies, Ourselves" and "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson come to mind. But BOTH are for mature women.
At age 13, I think you might do better speaking with your school nurse or counselor.
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I'm 14 and I've been masturbating for a couple of years.
The whole point of masturbation is to enjoy it, if something hurts you then don't do it! lol
Start by trying to stimulate your clitoris, this is normally the easiest way for a woman to orgasm, and it shouldn't hurt.
If it hurts to put your fingers inside you, then don't, although the more turned on and wet you are the wider your vagina gets, if you're not used to it then it will still hurt.
Start slow and build up as you get used to your body.
Oh, and the white thing that came out of your vagina was probably just discharge, this can happen when you get turned on, or can just be to do with your hormones. When you have an orgasm, believe me you will know :-)
Hope this helped :-) xxx
The whole point of masturbation is to enjoy it, if something hurts you then don't do it! lol
Start by trying to stimulate your clitoris, this is normally the easiest way for a woman to orgasm, and it shouldn't hurt.
If it hurts to put your fingers inside you, then don't, although the more turned on and wet you are the wider your vagina gets, if you're not used to it then it will still hurt.
Start slow and build up as you get used to your body.
Oh, and the white thing that came out of your vagina was probably just discharge, this can happen when you get turned on, or can just be to do with your hormones. When you have an orgasm, believe me you will know :-)
Hope this helped :-) xxx
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Above answers are the correct approach.
Just do what feels good (gentle massage on or near the clitoris will normally do it) and keep doing it, until you orgasm. You will definitely know when you do. What you are aiming for is to find the motion, place, and speed that produces the nicest feeling. That might be a more gentle and slower movement than you are using. Start slow and soft.
In my opinion, and experience, 13 is not to young to be having orgasms.
The first time you try anything new, it might take a while to get it right.
Don't put pressure on yourself.
Just do what feels good (gentle massage on or near the clitoris will normally do it) and keep doing it, until you orgasm. You will definitely know when you do. What you are aiming for is to find the motion, place, and speed that produces the nicest feeling. That might be a more gentle and slower movement than you are using. Start slow and soft.
In my opinion, and experience, 13 is not to young to be having orgasms.
The first time you try anything new, it might take a while to get it right.
Don't put pressure on yourself.
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Exactly. When I masturbate, I start by rubbing my clitoris in circular motions with my pointer and index fingers. I start slow, then work my way faster and a little harder. This can make you wet..because it makes me wet. then once im really wet, I stick two fingers in my P**** and stroke it going in an upwards motion. that usually does it for me. hope this helped.
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