I have such low feeling in my vagina/clitoris that the only thing that works is a vibrator and its gotta be like a jackhammer. this is really affecting my relationship because my boyfriend feels like its his fault or its something he isn't doing. What kind of surgery can i get to expose more nerves or generally acquire sensation at all? i've tried the creams and that new KY for him and for her stuff, it doesn't cut it. please help, i am so desperate!
what surgeries can *help* not held....whoops
You didn't mention anything about your clitoris. Is it exposed, or can you expose it by lifting the hood? Direct stimulation is usually quite exciting and often more than a girl can handle after a short while.
My wife has a "buried" clit. That means it's permanently hidden under the skin. Although she can reach orgasm when I rub the general area. It would sure be nice (for me anyway) to be able to touch and lick her actual clit. I think it would make it much easier to produce the desired results.
After one of our kids was born she was going in for some surgery on her vagina due to tearing during the birth. She asked if he could cut the skin while she was already numbed up to get her clit out in the open. He emphatically told her they didn't do things like that. I have often wondered if he understood what we wanted. Did he think she was asking him to do FGM on her? At that time WE had not heard about FGM so it didn't occur to us that he might have thought that, until years later.
Anyway, if your clit isn't out where it can be loved, that may be the problem.
If it's large enough to be uncovered so it rubs on your clothing all the time, it may be desensitized like the glans of a circumcised male. In that case I don't know what you could do about that.
My wife has a "buried" clit. That means it's permanently hidden under the skin. Although she can reach orgasm when I rub the general area. It would sure be nice (for me anyway) to be able to touch and lick her actual clit. I think it would make it much easier to produce the desired results.
After one of our kids was born she was going in for some surgery on her vagina due to tearing during the birth. She asked if he could cut the skin while she was already numbed up to get her clit out in the open. He emphatically told her they didn't do things like that. I have often wondered if he understood what we wanted. Did he think she was asking him to do FGM on her? At that time WE had not heard about FGM so it didn't occur to us that he might have thought that, until years later.
Anyway, if your clit isn't out where it can be loved, that may be the problem.
If it's large enough to be uncovered so it rubs on your clothing all the time, it may be desensitized like the glans of a circumcised male. In that case I don't know what you could do about that.