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Um, im a girl. ever since i wuz like 10, ive laid on a bed or on the floor, face down, and ive like..well.. rubbed my, um private area... it feels i guess good when i do it, but i know that inside, i dont want to do it. it feels wrong and sick, and well, un natural. help?
This is exactly how i started masturbating. I used to do it all the time and not even know what it was i was doing. I was young, if not younger, than you when i started. I used to do it at school in the loos and anywhere i could as i did not know that it was masturbation. It is masturbation! Im not sure how old you are now but assuming you are older now, then next time you have the house to yourself take some time to masturbate. Get naked and lie or your bed or sofa etc. Relax and maybe put some relaxing music on. Softly touch yourself all over and then work your way down to your vagina. Although u started lying face down, try lying on your back with you legs spread apart. Try using one or three fingers to rub your clit. Start slowly then get faster. It will feel different the first time, but trust me it is AMAZING! Once you are used to this you could try touching your breast and pinching your nipples etc. Or anything else that turns you on. But most of all DONT WORRY. It is one of the most natural things anyone can do. And have fun! ;-)
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ok im 13 but i dont really no if im masterbaitng or not. i now i dont want to masterbate. but like when im in bed i lie down like going to sleep and then i guess imbored so i touch down there. idk if it feels good or not but i dont want to do it. alot of say its all natural but i dont now. and osme days i only do it in bed but someitmes i do it a lot. i dont know if its all right or wat. but does masterbaitng cause acne? cause im 13 and i man teens get acne and i have it but idk if some of it is beacsue i touch my self daily in bed. can u help me? idk but i think a lot of my friends do it casue like if we r watching a movie or someithng i will feel them touch them down there but i dont say anything/ also if i touch myself down there does that cause me to not be a virgin? PLEASE HELP i dk wat im doing! i like the feeling of course i guess but the agian i think its gross.......? HELP o.O
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umm well i m kinda worried here..
some1 please help, its abt masterbating
ima gal,
i do it like twice a week or sumthing n hav been doin it from YEARS
umm well i lay face down..
i m kinda worried abt datt:S:S
is datt okay/normal?
shud i change the position? lay on my bak?
is masterrbating okay for me? is it gunna cause any harm in fututre??
plzz helpp and answer the questionss thx!
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Everyone Relax.....

I started masterbating....I think I was 12, maybe 13 not sure. I would do it the same way as you guys, rub myself on the bed (hump) pillow etc, not stupidly, but soft and it felt great. Mind you...never have I Orgasmed will I was about 18, you will know when it happens believe me!!

So to get to your question:

1.NO MASTERATION DOESN'T CAUSE ACNE....Your Skin, your gentic background, what you eat etc...thats will cause or be a huge influence to acne. Touching yourself down below will not cause acne.

2. It doesn't matter how you masterbate, as long as you are careful an not harming yourself, or anyone else how ever you like it is fine. If you lay on your belly on your bed and rub yourself against your bed, or use your fingers, or gently use the end of a hairbrush etc...its all fine as long as it doesn't hurt, and your not hurting yourself its ok.

3. Yes, touching yourself with your fingers will make you feel alot better, but some people aren't up to that right away...so keep rubbing against the bed

4. Rubbing yourself does not mean you lost your virginity...your still a virgin. And Depending how you look at it....sticking a hair brush handle up inside you could break your hymen and in a physical sense, you lost your virginity..BUT I have masterbating many times (hundreds) I'm 20 right now. and I have toys, I have used fingers, rubbing etc. I have done everything...well maybe not everything. And yes, I'm sure I would have had to break my hymen, but I am still a virgin...I have never had sex with a man, so to me that means I'm still a virgin. And you should all think the same....

5. MASTERBATING IS OK, ITS NATURAL...ITS NOT SICK OR GROSS, and as long as its done safe, and clean it will not cause any problems in the future. If becomes a problem when you are doing it too many times when its interfering with your day to day life, or if you are doing it an very inappropriate times. Just think before you do it, and you should be good to go.

Its up to you if you want to stick anything inside you, but please be careful There have been stories of girls really hurting themselves, or ending up at the Emerg, for a rather embarrassing ordeal to remove foreign objects from their vagina....Its Ok as long as you keep things safe and CLEAN! Its common sense...don't be rubbing yourself with dirty hands.

I hope that answers some of the questions....

-Canadian Girl
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i am 13 years old and i have masterbated ever sents 10 and
i dont know if its a gross thing or means i
am sick
but am i ok ?
is it ok to masterbate with outher
ppl
i have alot of qustions
so just let me know?:-)

-emiley
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Is natural, dun worry. U might wanna put your finger inside. It feels better
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If u don't feel good find someone to talk to
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Yes yes dont be ashamed good keep doing it then move on to sex but when wY older but just try it the wY she said.
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Its ok but face up spread ur legs put two fingers in ur vagina then go in and out slowly then faster
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It is a natural thing. It is self stimulation.
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Hi I'm 13 and i masturbate maybe like 3 times a week. and I am a guy but when I do masturbate I do you know sperm and that's the thing I have a question about when I do do this It comes out a lot and I don't know if this is unhealthy or something for me please reply
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I think this is called masturbation. I have been doing the same thing as you ever since I was like what, six? I told my parents I stopped when I was eight because they thought it was weird. The problem is, is that every time I do it, my period starts that same day..........

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Why dose masterbating feel so good but wrong at the same time
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Nothing is wrong withyou hun I masterbate and idid not know how but I might be doing it wrong because I get raw fast
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