Hello Xhndjm
Yes, a girl can loose her virginity even at 10 or 11. Virginity is related to hymen [a thin membrane that covers the mouth of vagina - but has tiny holes to let menstral blood through]. Loss of virginity is related to hymen being torn off - 1) due to penetrative sex, OR 2) Vigorous exercise such as stretching or horse riding. Penetrative sex is at 10 is extremely painful and may leave indellible scars on the little girl's mind which will interefere with her sex life. A sense of guilt may follow. Losing virginity is not a sin, but it is always preferred to loose virginity at right age [18 or more] and with a person with whom you may want to spend rest of your life. Hope you understand
Hi
Did you previously post as 'Priti'? If so, I am sorry about the detail of what happened when you were 10. However, there was also a post about penis size and orgasm under 'Xhndjm'! So I am a little confused.
However, to answer your question, a girl can lose her virginity at any age. Technically, virginity is lost whenever a guy's penis enters a female's vagina. Often this is accompanied by the hymen being ruptured, and many cultures equate the loss of the hymen with the loss of virginity. But sometimes girls rupture their hymens before having sexual intercourse, so they are still virgins, but without the 'evidence' that some look for. On the other hand, some have had sexual intercourse without their hymens rupturing. So they are no longer virgins, yet have intact hymens.
In many countries, sex with a minor is illegal, so sex at 10 would be illegal (apart from moral/religious implications). Incest brings a whole set of issues with it.
Exactly how bad it is depends on the circumstances of the virginity loss, and what the cultural and religious implications are for you. Losing virginity on the wedding night is a good thing!
I hope this helps as a start.
Ofcourse you could lose your virginity at any age. The problem is that the PREpubertal hymen is not estrogenised and not pliable and can be very painful for penetrative sex.
Once the hymen is estrogenised like what happened when a girl hits puberty then the elasticity of the hymen improves greatly and stretched very easily and sexual penetration then becomes much easier.
The medical definition of losing one's virginity is about penis being inserted into the vagina for the very FIRST time and the tearing of the hymen that happens during that event.
In sex NOTHING is bad provided it is done without causing either of the partners to get hurt. 10 may be a bit too early to lose one's virginity and depending on your country of residence could be illegal especially if the guy is much older.