Yesterday I was fingered by my boyfriend for the second time ever. I am still a virgin. It hurt. And a couple of hours later, my lower stomach was hurting and I felt neasua. Today it still hurts and I just feel kinda bad. I can't talk to my parents or a doctor about this. If they found out, I'm dead meet. But is this normal? What should I do?
First of all,you should let your parents know about it because they are more experience than you do.
After all you are not the first person to be in this situation but i advice you never to try that again.
Even if it's possible break up with your boyfriend and just focus on your studies and maybe that will help.
After all you are not the first person to be in this situation but i advice you never to try that again.
Even if it's possible break up with your boyfriend and just focus on your studies and maybe that will help.
When doing anything vaginal, there should be a lot of fluids involved. Were you properly lubed when he did it? If not, the friction of skin against skin can cause a lot of pain.
For the inner pain, I am not sure how that is related, so you should talk to a doctor about it, definitely. Also, you can ask your doctor not to mention to your parents why your stomach hurts...just tell them it hurts.
And if what you're doing is so bad that you'd be dead meat for telling, you probably shouldn't be doing it sweetie.