I don't know how I let myself fall in love with him and have such an emotional and physical affair. It just feels right. It does not feel right to be hurting our families, my husband or his wife. We have tried no contact several times over the year but it obviously hasn't worked. We are both tornup about it but can't stop. My husband found out but we have been working on our marriage. He doesn't know I'm still having the affair. We are better but it's just not the same. I have read everything about affairs but it doesn't help. I know I have to be true to myself and everyone around me but I can't give anyone up. Sometimes I believe I can have both lives or think I should leave it all and start all over. I'm very depressed but have to put a mask on everyday. I have no one to blame but myself. would like to hear from anyone with similar experiences. I know what I'm doing is wrong so you don't have to tell me.
i think you should go with the guy you love most,the guy who make you happy when you had a bad day, the guy who treats you right, the guy that tells you he loves you and really means it. follow ur heart. u cnt keep doing ths to yourself do what u think is best for u, being with ur husband or the man that u have an affair with. if u pick the man ur having the affair with ask him do he loves u and would tel his wife and divorce her just to be with you. if you pick ur husband i think you guys need marriage counseling.
i wish you the best of luck. :)