im 18 and i believe i have a problem. i seem to masterbate on a lot on this one particular thing...boys muscles. i dont know why. ive been doing it ever since 4th grade. im not gay i love girls and want to have kids one day. i dont like the boys themselves just their muscles. it is very strange to me but it gives me extreme pleasures. i dont touch them in any way i just look at their muscles. they dont know why i do i just tell them that im helping them to get stronger or trying to see if they should lift weights or something like that. can someone please help me or give me some advice on what i should do. or to help me understand why i maybe doing this...PLEASE RESPOND!!!!!
Hi honey! This doesn't mean you are gay at all! It is about VISUAL, PERIOD! Men are stimulated by Visual images! Thus being attracted to good looking women, or men! And you just like one body part, it's just ALL hormonal and visual that is it!!! Women are slightly stimulate by the visual, but most is by sound and smell! - thus women like to be told they are pretty, or made to laugh, or a nice smelling partner! We are ALL made to react in certain ways! In most animal groups, the female smells the prey and hears more than the male! Such as a woman ALWAYS can hear her children - WAY before a man! And the man is always on guard and watching his "home" plus he is always trying to get with the best "looking" female! So that is what is happening, you are LOOKING at muscles, finding them attractive, and get sexually stimulated by them. Just like when people have addictions to shoes, feet, forearms etc! So don't worry about it OK? It's normal and fine!
thanks so much the advise. i really needed 2 hear that