Me and my boyfriend been together for about 5 years now.The 1st year we were together he never ate me out but after I had our baby he started to and it felt GREAT!...A year went by and one day while he was eating me out it didn't feel the same...not good at all. This has been gion on for about 2 years now. He eats me out still but it jus doesn't feel the same and I have to try SOOOO hard to get off (fantasy, grinding etc..) This was the ONLY way i got off. I never really enjoyed vaginal sex, but since I had oral, I really didn't mind but now thats gone im goin CRAZY...im tired of playing with myself and faking ALL the time. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, but I can't imagine having a dull sex life for the REST OF MY LIFE..what should I do?
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You need to tell him your appetite has changed, and the two of you need to get some other behaviors on the menu.
Tell him you want more cuddling, more affection and less direct approach to the clit. Less oral, if that's what you want.
If he cares for you, he'll plan with you want you want to try in the future.
But make absolute certain this conversation is not done while you're in bed, about to have sex, or have just had sex.
Make it a romantic dinner or a night out, if you like, but don't link this discussion to the immediate possibility of sex, ok?
Good luck. Let us know.
Tell him you want more cuddling, more affection and less direct approach to the clit. Less oral, if that's what you want.
If he cares for you, he'll plan with you want you want to try in the future.
But make absolute certain this conversation is not done while you're in bed, about to have sex, or have just had sex.
Make it a romantic dinner or a night out, if you like, but don't link this discussion to the immediate possibility of sex, ok?
Good luck. Let us know.
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