Hi I'm a 13 year old male. A weeks ago we had a school dance I walked out because it was a slow dance. and my kind of friend walked out and said she asked me if I wanted to dance. I was like ummmm and she said a bunch of people called her a b***h and a w****. I decided to because she was obese and I wanted to boost her self confidence. But after it was over she wanted me to kiss her and was manipulated by her so I did and I DO NOT LIKE HER. So I was on the step regretting what I had done when she comes out and says kiss me on the lips and I won't tell anyone and I said NO GO AWAY. I shouldn't of done that. And she runs off crying. I ended up apoligizeing cause I felt so bad. And the next day at school I told her I didn't like her and she cried again. Now she stalks me, wants to ruin my life, and even made a school play about it. Sorry if I swear but I f*****g HATE HER. What do I do to get her off my tail? I always remember it like yesterday and it feels terrible. Please help....
OH BOY......... I compleatly understand your frustration and where you are coming from. I have accidently done similar things to a couple girls myself and it is never easy to deal with....You try to be a nice person and do something because no one else will then the girl thinks because you did that you lover her. when you tell her that you dont like her in that way. she takes it like you hate her and are horrible just because you wont make out with her, date her, have sex with her etc....... this is because guys and girls brains are wired compleatly different. add on the raging hormones from puberty/being a teenager and you get all sorts of drama... the good thing is you are young and this sort of thing will blow over with time.... have you tried talking to her about how she feels and why she feels that way?
No I haven't talked to her. It's just such a raging hate that I can't even stand to look at her... The biggest reason I hate her is because she told the whole school...
I understand that..... what did she tell the whole school? that you danced with her or that you kissed her? what are other kids saying about the situation are they making fun of you or are they ok with it even though what the girl said wasnt exactly the truth
They are making fun of me and you know how girls are one tells her friends and they tell theirs and so on. They just think I'm a jerk and they say you kissed her!!
And by the way she's telling them I kissed her and blew her off.
You need to talk to her and ttry to come to some sort of an agreement. You need to take into account her feelings even if you are super mad at her. There could be things going on in her life that you have no idea about and it may explain why she was so hurt when you left or told her you didn't like her..... talk to her first atleas you will understand her feelings about the situation and she will understand your feelings on it