Best Male Orgasm Tips

Ladies, have you ever wondered what you could do to make your guy’s orgasm more intense? And guys, have you ever wanted to learn a few tricks that can help push yourself over the edge? Learning how to enhance the male orgasm is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom.

Ladies, if your guy is working hard to intensify his pleasure, you will reap the benefits, as your orgasms can in turn be just as mind blowing.  Here are some tips to raise the orgasm bar for men that both partners can get in on. So guys, take note and have at. 

Stay in the Moment 

While being intimate with your partner, try to stay out of your own headspace. Simply, try to concentrate on every sensation rather than concerning yourself with how well you’re performing. Allow yourself to get lost in the noises that surround you, especially her sensual moaning. Use all of your senses to take her in. Look at her or look in a mirror, if you have the opportunity, to see yourselves intertwined in each other. Take in her scent and use your hands to caress her body. 

Pace Yourself 

When you’re having intercourse and you start to feel that sensation building, take a break. Halt the penetration and engage in some other sensuous activities, then continue on with your lovemaking.  Keep doing this until you’re ready to burst. The act of interrupting that build-up can actually make your orgasm more intense and what’s even better, can make her orgasm more intense also. 

Get Creative 

Engage in some role-playing activities with your partner if she’s into it. Pretending that you’ve just met or acting out other various other scenarios can increase the desire you have for one another and build up to an unforgettable orgasm.  While some couples also dabble in bondage, spanking, hair pulling or even choking, it is important to understand that any of these options should always be discussed with your partner in advance.

Because of the nature of these acts, they should always be done in a safe manner. If role-playing or the rough stuff isn’t her thing, you can always try fantasizing in your own mind, just make sure you don’t get carried away. Calling her by a different name, for example, can certainly be a deal breaker. Fantasizing as well as watching erotic videos can also be a good tool to use when masturbating to intensify your climax. 

Remember That it’s Not a Marathon 

If you want to have better, more intense orgasms, be sure to take your time. This goes for intercourse as well as masturbation. During sex, many guys find themselves racing to the finish line, pumping fast to get to the crescendo. If you reduce your speed and penetrate her slowly, even as you build up to the climax, you will find yourself feeling all of the sensations that lead up to the orgasm, thus making you feel the orgasm more intensely. Likewise, when masturbating, many guys are in a rush to simply get it done or are afraid they will get caught in the act. If this is true for you, plan to masturbate when you have ample time to not only get the job done but also to thoroughly enjoy it. 

Tighten Up 

While you are in the throws of passion try to flex your muscles; your pelvic or thigh muscles that is.  Tightening your thigh muscles or pelvic floor muscles during intercourse can make your orgasm more intense. Just contract and release them periodically while you’re in the act and this will help heighten the sensations. Be subtle, of course, as you don’t want to frighten your partner. 

Male Orgasm Tips For Women 

He Owns The Night 

Since many men often worry about how they’re performing or if they are actually pleasing their partner, it might be a nice change if you decide to give him the night off. Because of this preoccupation with their partner and the self-restraint needed to allow their women to reach climax, many men are actually depriving themselves of the sense of reckless abandon that will provide them with a forceful orgasm.

Persuade him to concentrate on enjoying the sexual experience without the pressure that comes with wanting to make you climax. You could invite him to lie back and relish in your pleasuring him or, as things build-up, tell him to go for it, without having to worry about you. Having you pleasure him alone will give him the opportunity to stay in the moment, enjoying every minute rather than over concentrating on what he is doing. 

Tease, Then Please 

Lay off of the lovemaking for a night or two, and instead, tantalize him at every turn. Call him during his lunch break and talk dirty to him. Flash a breast as he passes you by on his way into the other room. Be sure to get your flirt on, making him want you desperately. The idea is to give him that hot and bothered, dying to make love feeling. All this pent up sexual tension will make the orgasm much more powerful when you finally do the deed. 

Extended Foreplay 

If you spend a lot of time on foreplay, his orgasm should be much stronger. Dr. Uri Peles from the Beverly Hills Center for Sexual Medicine suggests that the more lengthy the foreplay, the more build-up of pressure in the genitals. As the genital muscles tense up, the area becomes swelled with blood, making the pressure to climax stronger. The more this pressure is built up, the more intense the orgasm is, because the muscle contractions will be longer and more forceful.  So more pressure equals more pleasure. 

A Little Exploration Can’t Hurt 

In addition to the penis, men have other sensual areas to manipulate that can help them to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Gently rubbing his testicles as he climaxes can make his orgasm more intense. Likewise, some men enjoy having their nipples tweaked or rubbed as they inch closer to the edge. However, the G-spot for men is often the anus.

While some men aren’t fond of anal play, others find that it produces the most intense orgasms they’ve ever had. During sex, try gently rubbing your finger along the outside of his anus; if he’s for it, using your finger to massage his prostrate can send him completely over the edge. If your man is not a fan, simply massaging the area between the testicles and anus, the perineum, can create a most intense orgasm. 

Assert yourself 

Being a bit aggressive in the sack can really turn your guy on. Talk to him; tell him what you want and let him know how you like it. Don’t be afraid to talk dirty. If you’re into it, or if it turns you on, simply telling him what you want him to do and how you want him to do it can drive him wild and build up to an intense orgasm. When you’re in the throws of passion and he’s just about to climax, grab his backside and pull him towards you, this lets him know that you want him bad, which will make him explode. 

Even if you think you’ve had the best orgasm ever, there may be room for improvement. Both men and women can try new things to intensify the male orgasm. Now that you know the tricks of the trade, remember that practice makes perfect, so start putting all you’ve learned to the test.