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Hi all,

So I've basically just been humping a pillow every time I want to "go there" and lately it hasn't been working as well as it used to. I have been wanting to try penetration, but there are a few problems with it.

1. I'm (obviously) still a virgin and so I'm, as they put it, 'tight'
2. I can't but any toys since I haven't got a credit card and my parents would notice something
3. I need some way to start off small and eventually work my way up to the point where my hymen is fully stretched so it doesn't hurt.

What I'm asking is for a way to make a discreet and (initially) small equivalent of a dildo or some such so I can stretch my hymen in such a way that it won't hurt but will still give me pleasure. I know of ways such as a Sharpie, shower head etc but I would like answers of the best ways to actually get it inside me without hurting or giving me an infection.

Also (sorry for being fussy here) in the answers, please don't post something like 'yeah ive been wunderind this to als o if u no how to use a tothbrush to masterrbayt pls tell me thx', since this is pretty incoherent and also irrelevant seeing as it isn't an answer.

Sorry for rambling and coming off as a bit picky, but thanks so much for your help :D

- Rebecca

Well, Rebecca, I had the same problem. But, unforntuantley, there really isn't a way to strech your hymen, without you feeling a little pressure, or a little pain. I'm not sure you should try toys or a sharpie just yet, maybe just start with a finger...then when you feel comfortable, move on to another and so on and so fourth...

Let me warn you that you will feel pressure if you haven't tried penatraction before, just make sure you're wet enough so it will be a little easier, okay?

Goodluck & Godbless<3

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Hi dear Rebecca, I guess that you are even very young to penetrate your vagina, it can be painful, it can cause you infections or it can injure you a lot. Tell me please if you had frequently masturbate and for how much him ago?

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I suggest that you start off by wetting your clit then moving in circular motions and then go super fast and moan and stuff then say go faster and harder over and over again.Then when your comfortable and in the mood try sticking a finger in your hymenI don't think that you can tore your hymen without feeling preside or pain but I hope this helps.
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Hi,



Thanks for your reply :) I started when I was about 9 and I've done that method with a pillow the whole time, and I masturbate once a day or once every few days. I have put a finger in before and it got quite a way since I used lube and stuff but there's a bit there when I feel like a "wall" or solid part that I don't want to forcibly push my finger through.



Thanks, I'll email you if I have any more questions :)



-Rebecca
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Hi Rebecca, thanks for your answer, and becarefully because I think your hymen is intact, put in your finger slowly and not push hard please.
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Honestly, you should just have sex. Let a penis penetrate you deeply and cum inside you. It will feel way better than a sharpie or a pillow. Once his semen is in you, use that as lube for fingers or a miniature bat. You should also buy a battery operated massager that you can use on your clit.
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Hi Rebecca. I am still a virgon to and i really want to have sex. My hymen is still very tight to but if u have a fork or spoon with a round end u can use that for deep penetration anf it feels amazing.
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Hi rebecca i would love to help you with yiur virgnity problem
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What's ur # ; ) I would like to help u Becky. When discuss ways to successfully penetrate u.
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