Hello, I am seventeen, nearing eighteen. I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for a long time and we do very much so love each other. I know and can feel the difference between "making love" and just "having sex". I have had sex with two previous guys before him, so it is not like I'm inexperienced. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life and I love it, but I can never cum! Me, being a girl, I realize it's more difficult than that maybe for a guy, but during sex/foreplay/masterbation I can not cum! I never have. I have experienced a weird sensation as if I'm about to urinate during sex and what not. I've heard rumors that this feeling means that a woman is about to cum, but I can't help but feel I'm just going to pee everywhere, and that would not be good haha. I've also heard that a woman can't reach this high peak of pleasure until she is in her thirties. So my question is, why can't I? and if there is any helpful advice on what I can do to solve this problem, it would be highly appreciated. Thank you!
oh my gosh, i have the same problem, except im 16, almost 17 and i have been in a loving relationship with one guy for 2 and a half years and i have never been able to cum, my new boyfriend thinks i haven't gone for long enough and tries to make up for it with oral sex, but after a point it's not so pleasureable :/ during sex i get the feeling of urination in certain positions but the feeling normally lasts a long time (until he is 'done') .
I hope if someone give you a decent reply, that can explain it or fix it, i hope commenting on this would make it so i get the reply too, cause i really want to know how it can be fixed!! :///
I hope if someone give you a decent reply, that can explain it or fix it, i hope commenting on this would make it so i get the reply too, cause i really want to know how it can be fixed!! :///