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Hey everyone...I'm sixteen years old. Just turned sixteen in January. I really need help right now because I am super confused. I have done a lot of research on what is wrong because I have not yet started my period. All the signs point to primary amenorrhea. I am a long distant runner, about 4 miles everyday. Last year, I had an eating disorder from november to february...I got through it though and am proud to say it is gone and I am okay now. I was a calorie counter. 700 a day at one point. I was 100 pounds. Currently weighing 125, i am back on track. When I ate only 700 calories a day I was over exersizing too. This was out of depression. Once I got back to not counting calories and eating anything/ putting back on the normal weight as well as gaining muscle, I developed a stress fracture. That's healed though. But the whole point here is that...I am pretty sure I am underdeveloped. I seem to have a very small opening for a vagina. I haven't seen a gyno yet. I feel as though I have your problems. And I'm young but as heartbreaking as it may sound...I think I won't be able to have children. I feel like if I were told that though, I am already mentally prepared. For 16 this is a lot on my plate to keep in mind in addition to school and sports, family and relationships. I'm still so young yet. Anyone have advice by chance it would be greatly appreciated from someone older who understands a bit more.
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Don't feel bad I'm 21 and have a lot of issue that fact that i too have never had my period puts me under a lot of pressure . I wish i was normal and like everyone else but I'm not. When I tell people like friends and doctors I feel terrible. Sometimes I feel like I’m a rat in a cage on display for everyone look and asks question and makes those stupid faces. When I was about 16 years old I had a ultrasound and they said they could not see my ovaries. My hormone level was normal but my body just was not letting it happen. I too and very small and un developed I still look like I’m 14 -15 years old I have not aged which is upsetting. I was told about taking hormone pills by the doctors. The fact that I cannot swallow pills and the side effects I gave up. I stopped searching for answer because I thought there was no one in the world like me .After reading others ideas I have deiced to do some more test and see what I can done .From what I have read other have the same problem and I’m guessing some kind of theory might me a good option .

I think you should do more research and not give like I did. I felt like I can relate to you the fact being 16 and not knowing what going on can be really upsetting. We all want to what the heck is going on and hopeful one day someone will have an answer.
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hi, oh girls, i kept reading all your posts, i'm sadly glad if that make sens i'm from Peru if any girl who dont understand well english and want to talk about this could reply so i send my mail. I'm also 22 and never got my period, took the ultrasound and told me that my uterus was too small and prescribed me birthcontrol pills, just like some of you. WELL i took them nothing happen, i trust in god, i hopefully found the answer to me issue. the doc told me to wait i'm still waiting.
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are u still waiting?
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i was told that my uterus was size of a little pear. what is happening to doctors comparing our lovely uterus to fruits.
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i see so much of my experience in your words. i would like so much to talk with you. from girl to girl. reply please.
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this help me so much, thank you very much i'm lucy. i would love to read more of your experience :)
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hi girl, how is the hormone therapy, i never heard of that, or maybe i live in Peru, maybe i heard the name in spanish, but i wouldn't know how it is. please reply tell what is it. i dont know what to do... i was taking the hormones as the birth control, but many people told me about developing scist
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how can i find you on facebook???
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i want to contact u please reply
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which pills are you taken????
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it's a blessing!!! i feel happt for your story!!! :)
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I HAVE THIS ISSUE, I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO CHAT WITH A GIRL WITH THE SAME PROBLEM, I NEVER KNEW OF A GIRL LIKE ME, PLEASE CONTACT ME, I WILL BE CHECKIN FOR ANY REPLY, i just want to tell that i feel happy i'm not the only one-
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Wow I though I was the only one too :( its very sad but I'm going to doctor soon again u can keep in contact if u wan :)
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I Am 21 Years Old And I Too Have Never Had a Period, And Without A Period You Cant Have Babys I Have Been Married For 6 Years Now And I Really Want At Least One Baby Many People Wish For Fame Money Etc...And My Wish Would Be To Have A Healthy Baby I Get Mad When People Say Well Your Blessed Because You Dont Have To Deal With Cramps Buy Pads And Stuff Like That Yet They Have Kids Would They Still Say Its A Blessing To Them If They Didnt Or Might Not Be Able To Have Kids!! Some People Dont Deserve Kids But Yet They Have Many People Killing There Children And I Would Die To Have One!! Its Hard Because My Friends And Family Tell Me When Are You Gonna Have A Baby?? And I Have To Lie And Say Am Still Young When I Am Dying Inside Knowing Its Not True!! Sometimes I Blame Myself And Get So Depressed And Feel Like I Wouldnt Be A Good Mother Thats Why I Dont Have Kids Yet?? But I Hate Myself And Start To Think Why Is It Fair That Bad Mothers Have Babys And Am Not Saying I Would Be A Perfect Mother But I Would Love And Cherish My Child Till I Die Am I Not Good Enough I Am A Responsible Person I Pray For It Every Chance I Have But Nothing!! Am Sorry Iam Making You Read This I Just Need Someone To Talk To!! And I Dont Want People To Feel Sorry For Me Either Its Just That Its Hurts Alot!! I Know I Could Adopt A Baby But It Wouldnt Be The Same Would They Hate Me For Not Being There Biological Mother!! How Would They Take It And I Think It Would Be Best To Tell Them There Adopted Because It Would Only Make Things Worse If They Found Out On There Own!!

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