3 months after abortion still bleeding..

to the m***n who said GOD DOES JUDGE

guess what? some people don't believe in GOD and some people are not religious, the girl probably feels bad enough as it is , and doesn't need your GOD BS pushed on her. People like you make me angry the most, you just want and need to make people feel bad. 

mine seems to be like this, and i know my "normal period" is such, as the flow is heavier. this has been my second "natural" period since my procedure (which i am struggling to cope with emotionally and spiritually, which i'm sure affects the physical disharmony...) but this one is way heavier than any period I've ever had before in my life. I'm scared....

I got my first natural period about 5 weeks after procedure (spotting up til natural period), no spotting for ~10 days then medium bleeding for ~3 days and spotting (light) until time of second natural period, which as mentioned above, has been very heavy.

ive been bleeding for 3 whole months after giving an abortion also. ihad it august 16 and its now novemeber 18. itook the pills for the abortion and ialso got the nexplonen inplanted. why am istill bleeding 3months after. HELP !

I had an abortion a month ago and I haven't stopped bleeding yet. I am an Olympic athlete in a combat sport, with my talent I have been able to change people's lives for the better GOD is using me in positive ways. I definitely can't financially or emotionally take care of a baby right now. A few years from now I plan on starting a new chapter where I can have a baby. Maybe you'll read about it in a book coming out in 2016 how I had an abortion but still was able to serve GOD. Would you tell a 12 year old girl who may have been raped by her father to keep the child even if it was paralyzed or a mom of three to keep an unborn baby but she could die giving birth and thus leaving her 3 children with out a mom. I was a child of a mother who shouldn't have been a mom and I wish that on no one. What if one of those scenarios was you? Having an abortion was one of the hardest choices I made. I' m sorry I didn't live in a sheltered comfy world like you but them again I'm not because your so f*****g ignorant. JESS don't pay attention to this witch, I wish you the best. M2016

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone - who are you to judge or to say how she will feel down the road? Your last comment was completely uncalled for and unacceptable, if you ask me. YOU are the reason religion gets such a bad rap; judgmental people like yourself, with their two cents, telling people how to live, who they should believe, what's wrong and right. "Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again." - Matthew 7:1-3

The girl isn't coming here to be scolded or reminded of her wrongdoings. She is coming here seeking help/advice. How do YOU KNOW she isn't already suffering? Way to kick someone when they're down. Real Christian of you! You sound like a passive aggressive hypocrite. Let's save the statistics and learn to be a little more compassionate!

is this woman serious? not being funny luv but giving up on ur baby is having a baby in poverty, a c**p relationship......too many kids out there getting neglected being brought up in a terrible way! a foetus darling FETUS cant feel pain or fear before 19 weeks they only do things like suck a thumb bla bla as reactions no emotions involved. Plus the only emotional damage is having to make the decision! it give causes more emotional damage to the mother as well as the child not wanting that life...come on !! your only judging because you haven't been in that position or you did the stupid thing and had a baby you didn't even plan or had doubts in. id rather have a baby I 100% if I had any doubts and proceeded with the pregnancy id never forgive myself.

To the majority of young people an abortion is the only 'way out'. I spent my whole life saying how I disagree with abortions until I myself, fell pregnant. It is like a massive punch in the face and there was no way considering my circumstances I could have bought up a child. I was terrified. Your lack of empathy infuriates me. Everybody makes mistakes, these things happen all the time. It makes my blood boil when insensitive people comment on 'regret' and as quoted as above 'gave up on your baby'. An abortion is a nasty procedure to endure and I would not wish it upon anyone especially from my previous experience so usually anyone who has unfortunately undergone one usually feel an element of guilt and regret which is normal, a normal emotion we all feel.

I hope you have been seen to Jessica, make sure you are aware of the support available to you. It is an unpleasant experience but I assure you, you will be able to move on and heal. I have and I didn't think I would. Don't pay attention to anyone else's opinion or judgement, if you feel you made the right decision then it was the right choice.

:) keep your chin up !

I took the abortion pill on December 4th, it is now February 1st and I continue to spot or bleed or have a period of some sort. It comes out of nowhere when I swore i was done bleeding. No heavy cramping. Just bloating and cramping to confuse the hell out of me. Apparently bleeding is normal unless it's profuse. Extended bleeding after childbirth/miscarriage/abortion can be a symptom of a different disorder- like in my case a bleeding disorder (not hemophilia). It sucks but if you can, at least just call the place you got your abortion done to ask any questions you have.

I believe in God and I live with the guilt I had an abortion last December and am still bleeding I'm scared ill go to the doctors and b told I have cervical cancer as a karma for what I've done at the same time I have preyed for forgiveness and I believe he understands, at the end of the day if I had had this baby my depression would have been worse because I have no family or support I would have been a single mum with two kids by two different fathers and the previous father wouldn't b around I wouldn't have been able to cary on my carrear and my first daughter would have suffored the baby would have been born in to a life were the mum ie me would have been emotional stressed and depressed it wouldn't c it's father and have to Watch my daughter c hers it wouldn't have all the things financially it should have and my daughter would have lost out even more I just thought it would b selfish on my daughter me and the baby to keep it I feel ive saved a lot of upset disfunctionall living and heartache by doing what I have done everyone has thier opinions u cud say adoption etc but I couldn't live knowing he or she is being brought up.some were else my heart couldn't take the be customised I do love and did love this baby I took a lot of time to make my decision and realistically I have done the right thing I will suffer in karma I'm sure I don't need ppl with obviously sheltered upbringings and nasty opinions to tell me that if this girl wanted to b verbally abused for this I'm sure she wouldn't have seeked advice on here u r in fact on the wrong site go to a protest site or some thing have u even been through this urself to judge u haven't felt those emotions and that responsibility yup strap it up have safe sex I suppose but these mistakes are made we are all human all we can do is try to make the right decision for everyone in the long term I think adoption is brave a woman to give birth to her blood and give the baby away for a better life is brave and it makes them.better women than me I except that but I do not regret what I have done I am working my daughter has everything she needs I have no waste man emotional controlling or ruining me and I am slowly coming at peace with my lost baby so sod off and preech where u r preeching is appritiated by other preechers who can't step into an emotional persons mind state because they chose not to be educated in that area and r to arrogant and obviously the most annoying person to b around so girl listen to people who care understand and have a heart not these ppl okay! ! It is invalid and nasty.

I bleed for about 3 months too after taking the medical abortion and still to this day don't know why but I am ok and healthy as far as I know. Sadly what that last person said is true you are definitely going to feel regret at some point but that does NOT mean you are going to regret it forever, you're only 17 (I was only 18) and got a long life ahead, wht helped me through the regret and depression was reminding myself that what's done is done and I can't change the past but I can sure as hell learn from it and pave a better way for myself. I wish you the very best on your road to physical and emotional recovery because at our age being in that position is never really easy, no matter what the choice. Time will help too, mine was about a year ago and I have come miles from where I was before. Have courage you'll get through it

hi! I want to say that my galfrend had an abortion,she is married woman,she have six son in filipin. after she complete her safe abortion, its been a 2 months,she have still bleeding.no
any pain.this is normal or serious plz any1 tell me treatment about how to stop bleeding n get normal

You are such an insensitive person. This young girl specifically asked for advice only. The way you tried to give advice and then throw your condescending words at her... smooth operator. It's very apparent that you are insensitive. This girl has her own relationship with God, as I do my own. Maybe we believe in the same God. Who knows but I do know this... My God wants me to love people and not be so judgemental. You told her she gave up on her baby?!? Wow. Extremely insensitive. Statistically, if she would have given birth to this child, someone else would be raising it. We aren't here to talk about statistics. I'm sure you have many connected to yourself. Statistically, I should be on drugs and in jail. Lol. Get out of here with that c**p. I will pray to God and ask him to give you more compassion and empathy. With that attitude, you could be missing out on many opportunities to save people!

Hey, can I ask a question. I take it you've stopped bleeding a year later. How long did you bleed for? I've been on so many of these sites asking why I am still bleeding two months later but no one ever says how long it lasts!!

I had an abortion on the 27th of June and I'm still bleeding...is it normal?? It's been 3months exactly now and I'm scared...I was 1month and 2days pregnant..

Omg no one replys anymore! ): I had an abortion June 26 or 27? & had bled up to like 3 weeks & then I was okay. Then in another 2 weeks I had my period which lasted 3-4 days & I felt okay. Now today.... today is a bit over 3 months & I am bleeding so much that I wet 3-4 pads AN HOUR! I'm so worried, my fiance even more! Can someone please tell me why or what I can do?!