im 28 years old now,i was only 10 when i started to masturbate myself (im a girl),at first it was good that i hooked in it,i didnt inserted my finger in,im afraid,im proud to say until now i am virgin.the problem is i wanted to have a child,i had two boyfriends and they are good in bed,very good,but the problem is me...i am so afraid to try sex with them cause i know it might hurt me to death.i think i used to masturbate myself a lot to the point of frigidness on my side...can someone help me to solve my problem.please give me an advice on what to do.i really wanted to get pregnant to the man i love the most-my boyfriend,were planning to get married soon
well everyone is afraid to have sex for the first time it is quit normal, but if you have been masturbating for so long you are probably not that tight so it might not even hurt at all and even when it does hurt it isnt that bad and it is kind of a good pain and it makes it so much better with someone you love and when you are fully comfortable around them and do as much foreplay as you can so you can be very wet so it makes it better and once you do it once you will be addicted haha it usually takes a few times before it starts to feel good but you just want to keep doing it over and over:P
It will only hurt for like five seconds just make sure he gos slow at first then gradualy gets faster it will start to feel good
It's okay to be afraid, but the pain usually isn't that bad. It may feel like a burning sensation and it will only last for less than a minute. Does your boyfriend know your still a virgin? Try talking to him about it, I'm sure he'll understand.