My ex bf fingured me really hard and for a week after it hurted me alot. Does this mean that i lost my virgin hymen? Am i still a virgin? %-)
You haven't lost your virginity but yes a finger would cause the same amount of soreness that a penis would cause. Your hymen could be broken but that doesn't mean you've lost your virginity. If his penis enters your vagina, then you've lost it.
No, when a penis enters you fully errected and you have had the act of sex will mean you are not a virgin. SInce his penis will be bigger, you will more than likely bleed because he will stretch out your hymen. Virginity also means willinglly giving yourself up. Hope this helps