my long term b/f n i hav started havn anal sex. i know its suppose to be very enjoyable for men to receive anal and i want to do it. i hav a strap-on. but i dont know what to do wth it. what makes it so enjoyable for a man to receive? i really wnt to do ths and he does to but i need some answers so i wont feel stupid. and i want to do it right so it will be enjoyable for him. oh n ths is a straight relationship but im bi, and very open minded.
You could start practicing by putting it on yourself while you're alone, adjusting it and getting used to the feel (as the logistics of putting it on during a sex can be a real turn-off).
There are a lot of resources on the web of how to use it and what positions are good for starters. Take a look at straponsalon.blogspot.com for a good blog about it.
And use a lot of lube - that's a tip you'll read all over...
There are a lot of resources on the web of how to use it and what positions are good for starters. Take a look at straponsalon.blogspot.com for a good blog about it.
And use a lot of lube - that's a tip you'll read all over...
Position your boy friend on his back at the end of the bed, chair, couch, so that you can enter in anus while his legs are in the air. Be sure to use lots of lubrication in and around his anus. This way while he is on his back you can enter his anus slowly. This position allows you to touch his penis or he can touch his penis. Another position is doggie style where you enter him from behind. This one is a little impersonal, I think. Also rent or purchase the video "Bend Over Boyfriend." It is the classic strap on porn film that will give you some ideas. Good luck and have fun!