hey, so i am about 16 years old and i have been experiencing bleeding during sex. It has happened 2 nights in a row... but as soon as i clean up and not even half an hour all of the bleeding is gone and i won't bleed all night and all of the next day! i need some information or help what is going on, it is sort of scary me a little bit from reading everything i have looked up. i have been having sex with the same person for about 15 months and i know he doesn't have any diseases because i was the first girl he slept with. I need to know what else i can do, and if i need to go to the doctors because my mother really doesn't know i have sex at the moment. PLEEASE HELP.
I'm having some bleeding problems and I'm not sure if I should panick about it or not this is the 2nd time and the blood has been bad
Just where a condom or nothing if you are gonna with someone for a long time
I've experienced the same thing for several years now and it somehow started to affect my dating life because NOBODY wants to see blood in the middle of uhm, you know... But I went to several different gynos, some of them didn't take me seriously, others looked at me with a get-over-it-you-were-just-made-like-that look that made me feel hopeless, others would say, like others have mentioned before in this thread, that I needed to change brands or use more lube (no, really, Sherlock?) until I found one gyno who took me seriously and did dig into the problem on trying to find a solution for this issue. I wouldn't always bleed but I would start bleeding in particular sexual positions (woman on top, doggie, or any other that required deep penetration [I know, TMI]) so, I told this info to this gyno and he looked at my cervix and told me that I have a friable cervix meaning that some of my cervical cells were too exposed and would start bleeding at the contact of anything (say, tampon, vibrator, and of course, a male organ!). He treated me by applying Trichloracetic Acid 85% with a swab. The application is somewhat uncomfortable and you will feel cramps the rest of the day, you will then start seeing a while discharge which are the cells that are being eliminated due to the acid (sounds more horrible than it is) and you can't have sex for 2 days, until your cervix is healed. It's been almost two weeks and I've had sex with no complications, no blood, I've used lube as a personal preference but it seems like I'm healed. He scheduled me for another session in two months to finally eliminate the cells that might have stayed there after the first application. There is a solution girls! DO NOT GIVE UP! And I know the internet is a scary place because everything you read, every testimony or experience you skim through feels like your own, well, every body is different and don't let bad experiences ruin your own quest for solutions and answers. Knock on different doors and don't be embarrassed or ashamed of telling your gyn what you're going through, they're used to hear that and your insurance, the one you pay religiously every month, is paying them well so make them work for your own health! That's my story. I'll keep you posted.
Okay I know this is old but it's important for any woman to know that if a guy acts this way he is NOT the one!
i have been wondering why i bleed when anything bigger then my boyfriends fingers are in me , is there something wrong with me i dont understand and im so scared that i wont be able to have kids when im ready :(
So has your bleeding stopped? The past few months that I've had inter course I've been bleeding really bad. I'm not experiencing pain or anything. Just lots of blood every time. I've been with the same partner for 6 years. I have my check ups and Pap smears regularly as we'll as he maintains his check ups. Any solutions on how to resolve the problem?
listen ladies you all should go to dr scared or not just to make sure there is no stds or infections could be something simple as needing antbiotics. For me i have hpv and bleeding during sex is just something i think im just gonna have to deal with and its so embarrising!!! But i thought of going to get diaphragm (because i read this one he is less likely to feel) so then blood doesnt get on him and he doesnt freak, so that is something you all could look into. And something called a softcup may work (i read that softcup is used so you can have sex while on your period )i just wanna use so if i do bleed he dont know.. So then i can enjoy sex without having to worry about bleeding as much, hope this helps somebody if anybody has tried this let me know.
Thank you all for sharing your stories. I Just experienced this for the first time, a day ago. Freaked my bf out. But he finished! LOL...smh. I am scared but at least now I know what type of tests to ask my gun for. I’m a young hottest 35, w 2 kids already. This is crazy!!! But this helps!
everyone who has this issue seems to be on some sort of birth control or other medication however im also experiencing this problem but i am not on any meds for anything or using birth control, my bf uses condoms.
any suggestions? x
also sea sponge tapons work!
I am having the same problems and I had asked my gyno 4 years ago when I started having sex with my partner if there was something wrong with me. He asked if my partner was bigger in size then what I had been with and I said yes. He said it's common then. So I thought it would go away, but now it's been 4 years later and I'm still dealing with the same issue. I have been to the doctors and they said nothing was wrong with me. I know this isn't normal and it's starting to scare me. It seems as if every time we have sex I wonder if he's going to see blood or not and that's not a fun thing to deal with. I know he probably hasn't dealt with anyone like this before so it's really frustrating.
You can go to a planned parenthood and get it checked out there. You're lucky you're under 18 because its usually free and it's confidential so your parents don't have to know.
Could also be chlamydia, which generally has no symptoms, or possibly gonorrhea, which can have very delayed symptoms. These can cause an inflamed cervix, which could cause the bleeding during sex.
HAVE YOU TESTED FOR CHLAMYDIA OR GONORRHEA...BOTH CAUSE INFLAMMATION OF CERVIX WHICH CAN LEAD TO BLEEDING DURING SEX. YOU CAN HAVE CHLAMYDIA WITH NO SYMPTOMS AT ALL. GONORRHEA CAN TAKE MONTHS TO HAVE ANY SYMPTOMS. A NEW PARTNER....HE LIKELY WOULDN'T KNOW IF HE HAD CHLAMYDIA. THESE STDS ARE VERY COMMON, AND IF UNDIAGNOSED CAN LEAD TO INFERTILITY!