I had sex with my boyfriend. but i did not bleed. because of this my boyfriend is refusing to believe that i was a virgin and never had sex wiyh anyone before and this is affecting our relationship because he thinks i am a liar. in this context i would like to mention that previously i was engaged with a guy and even though we never had sex, we were involved in fingering many a times and even tried penetrating twice. is it possible that my hymen had got ruptured back then and thats the reason i did not bleed?? please let me know if there is any scientific explanations to it or any sources by help of which i can prove my boyfriend that i'm not lying!! please helpe out soon. it will help me improve my relation with him
Well... I guess your bf lacks sex education... hymen can be ruptured by strenrous physical activity, bicycling, sudden thrust or jolt(this is a scientific fact which u can tell him)... But in your case, i guess its the fingering with your ex and trying to penetrate that ruptured it... You can convince your bf that u are'nt a liar by lying to him, like, telling him that u ruptured it with a dildo while masturbating thinking of him;-)...
But I don't recommend lying... just tell him the truth... If he happily accepts u for who u r, he's the right guy, if he doesn't, move on....