Hello,Im having sex with my boyfriend approximately 2-3 days per week 2 or 3 times each day and usually he can't reach orgasm the second time. I asked him if i wasn't doing anything wrong and he said no,nothing is wrong. He gets excited very easy but can't reach orgasm easily after the first time.Is that normal? What could be wrong? He is a smoker and he smokes weed also. I know that sometimes the problem can be psychological but im worried.I feel bad or that im doing something wrong when he can't reach orgasm and he really wants to. Could someone please tell me what could be wrong?
Hi geocmd,
This is normal my guys the same except he cant get erect a second time in a row. Its perfectly normal.
But why? I know that most of guys can ejaculate more than once.He usually blames the condoms and then he takes it off but he can't reach orgasm again and then he blames the fact that he is afraid that he won't pull out on time and he is scared that he will get me pregnant. I know,i feel that is just an excuse and he feels embarrassed that he can't do it again.