ive tried talking about it and it didnt work. help! /:
This is a problem that only you can sort out - You have to be firm with him. Sex isn't a one-way thing, you have to stand up for yourself a bit, if he refuses to have sex, then next time he asks you give him a taste of his own medicine! see how he likes it.
Yeah, I've had a guy like that too so I know how it feels.
Talk to him seriously. Sit him down and look straight at him. Ask him WHY the two of you only have sex when his penis is asking for it. Is this relationship based solely around His needs? Is it just a relationship for him to have a nice and comfortable girl to do it with? To release his sexual tension?
Because, sh*t, the guy I had was all about himself. When it came to me who gave a care? He just wanted to be pleasured whenever he felt like it. Which is FAR from what a relationship is supposed to be.
And if he continues to act in such a manner, I would highly suggest you stop dating him. Though of course who am I but an anonymous internet being, in the end. You do what you think is right.
Talk to him seriously. Sit him down and look straight at him. Ask him WHY the two of you only have sex when his penis is asking for it. Is this relationship based solely around His needs? Is it just a relationship for him to have a nice and comfortable girl to do it with? To release his sexual tension?
Because, sh*t, the guy I had was all about himself. When it came to me who gave a care? He just wanted to be pleasured whenever he felt like it. Which is FAR from what a relationship is supposed to be.
And if he continues to act in such a manner, I would highly suggest you stop dating him. Though of course who am I but an anonymous internet being, in the end. You do what you think is right.
i believe its a thin u guys can talk about,he might be someone that does like sex that much coz for a guy to see a girl that is willin to get down anytime with him and he is not ready for it at all time it simply means he doesnt like sex that much.ask him if there is any other thing he prefer doin aside from sex,as for the lady that told u to leave him,i dont think she gat a serious relationship and i dont think she has ever bin in love,sex is not everyhtin in a relationship.PLEASE IF TRULY U LOVE HIM DON'T LEVAE HIM BCO'S OF THAT.
I only had the "leaving him" as one suggestion.
It is quite true that sex is not everything in a relationship, and it never should be. But if there's a fellow who has a girlfriend mainly to satisfy his desires, then it might not be a relationship based off love. Or it was, but the focus has shifted over to sexual encounters. Who knows?
But of course if you really, really love this fellow you would definitely want to stay in the relationship. Though, honestly loving someone with all your heart doesn't mean you Always stay with someone. If there is a real issue (things like beating, etc.) then you should let common sense prevail. Of course this is not a factor here, but just a note for anyone who needs it.
And hey, you can be in a serious relationship and really care for someone but still leave them. Sometimes things just don't work out. Sometimes people cheat. Sometimes people lie. Sometimes people are just bit***s. But what can ya do?
Anyways, I'm going off on some tangent. Sorry.
It is quite true that sex is not everything in a relationship, and it never should be. But if there's a fellow who has a girlfriend mainly to satisfy his desires, then it might not be a relationship based off love. Or it was, but the focus has shifted over to sexual encounters. Who knows?
But of course if you really, really love this fellow you would definitely want to stay in the relationship. Though, honestly loving someone with all your heart doesn't mean you Always stay with someone. If there is a real issue (things like beating, etc.) then you should let common sense prevail. Of course this is not a factor here, but just a note for anyone who needs it.
And hey, you can be in a serious relationship and really care for someone but still leave them. Sometimes things just don't work out. Sometimes people cheat. Sometimes people lie. Sometimes people are just bit***s. But what can ya do?
Anyways, I'm going off on some tangent. Sorry.
It's been this way with my husband for 8yrs.
And I have never turned him down either