Hi guys!
As I experienced the same symptoms as most describe, and considering that not necessarily all symptoms occur, I stumbled upon Reiter's syndrom (though no one mentioned the soles and palms manifestation).
Another possibility, is that the prostate-linked problems stem from ankylosing spondylitis (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ankylosing_spondylitis), thus making the identification of the problem difficult via genital analysis. The condition tends to be heavily underdiagnosed.
Take my word with caution though, I do not have any medical background whatsoever.
Good luck, testes-aching fellowmen.
Looking for Mr. Mystery, and whoever else. I may have a peice to the puzzle. I was with a girl that had HSV2, she told me she could still give me oral because it was just below her waste and she has never had a cold sore or outbreak in her mouth she has the type 2. 48 hours after the oral my penis started aching. Sometimes it's confined to the tip. Worse after masturbation sometimes and certain foods can irrititate it and if I eat too much. I've experienced tingling buttocks, and legs. Pain in groin. Cold feeling in genitals. Stinging pain inside of my rectum and penis. Tingling balls. Itchy. No real outbreak except for one weird pimple on the base of my penis a few days afterwards. Looked nothing like herpes. Looked like a regular pimple? Anyways a month later I test for herpes 1 & 2 IgG and IgM. Doctor says she thinks it's all in my head... they won't even prescribe me a valtrex or herpes medication cause she's saying it's not that. They're treating me like a mental case, which I am. But this all started and it was something in her mouth. Symptoms on and off. I really hope it's not herpes. WE MUST FIGURE OUT IF ITS CONTAGIOUS.
And everybody don't be such a sissy about it. Stress and anxiety (which I have) definitely make it worse. Life is already hard enough, and there is already a enough struggle. You a attract what you focus on, much like a magnet. Stay positive. Trey songs, Derek jeter, Rihanna, chris brown, usher, Paris Hilton, ETC. literally a ton of super stars have herpes. Maybe that list of superstars will include me. Hopefully not. UTI came back negative but she also smoked cigarettes on and off, so I'm thinking it could be undectectable bacteria that is causing the problem. If it was herpes, within 6 months to a year the tests would have to show it. BUT I would try testing again Western Blot, IGG for herpes 1 & 2. Again. Just to make sure it's still negative. We should all stay connected and see if we could get down to the bottom of this. Even though I know it's not in my head, it can be excacerbated by anxiety and stuff so don't worry! And f**k these unintelligent doctors that are dismissing our problems as non-infectious, whether it's bacteria or what.
Last thing I'll say. Prostate could be involved too. Not saying we should ruin some girls life and put her in the same boat as us, but we need to figure out if we can pass it on to our girlfriends or even our wives. This is a misfortune and I'm filled with regret that I let this girl preform oral on me. And like I said, don't be a little mortal sissy about your pains. I think nerve pain in our genitals is the least of our problems lol. Life goes on. And there shouldn't be any real health concerns involved in this for most of this, rather than mental and emotional torment. Stay Positive - Nick