Hello everyone well I'm wondering if anyone can help me understand this well I'm with my boyfriend one romantic night. We started round one but he put on a condom and then he went to clean him self we just laid down for about 30 minutes we was talking and then we started round two again we used the condom. He went to clean his self then we laid down for just 45 min. We started round three we did a little down town but as I only was on him with out a condom for only like 3 maybe 5 minutes then i got off he put on the condom. At the time I wasn't on no pill i got off it for 5 months i was on it for over two years. I'm just scared if i could get pregnant just by only being on him for like 3 to 5 but he never cum in me. I'm scared cause of pre cum I don't know if he did I couldn't tell. Someone please HELP! I'm scared my period stopped and I had intercourse three days after that then I waited 9 days after but I'm not sure if i can take an early pregnancy test. HELP ME! please! Thanks everyone.
Dear DGirl
You need to be more specific about what you did! Euphemisms can be mistaken. For instance "a little down town" often means 'oral sex' and there are very limited ways where that could lead to pregnancy. What do you mean by "3 minutes of feeling" (in the question)? Also you don't give precise dates and cycle details! However I can make some generalisations:
- Pre-cum can contain sperm, especially after an ejaculation.
- 3-5 minutes is ample time for fluid transfer.
- If you have a 28-day cycle
- you would have been fertile Cycle Days 10-15 (your period start being CD 1)
- with a 5-day period
- 3 days after is cycle day 8, which is before your fertile days
- 9 days after that is cycle day 17, which is afteryour fertile days
- An HPTest can be taken after the next period had failed to arrive. A blood test might be positive CD 26
Hope this helps.