Sooo, 3 days ago my husband & I had to do the hardest thing ever and physically let go of our baby, I refuse to say we had an abortion- we had a D&C.... 5 days before, at our 2nd ultrasound (i was just about 13 weeks along) we were told our childs heart stopped beating.... we tried so hard to concieve this baby, we were both heart broken! I had very little bleeding the first day & none there after. My husband & I both wanted sex, so today we had sex... I did not start back up w/ the bleeding, it didn't hurt (he was very gentle), I am on anti-biotics (my husband also showered & cleaned himself right before).... I just want to know if anyone else attempted sex so soon & had no problems?
My opinion is that it's not advised that you should have sex so soon. You should let your cervix heal/ recover. Having sex so early after abortion may lead to many cervical problems including, cancer, inflammation infection and a whole lot more. I advise that you wait 2-4 weeks to have sex or better yet assure, see a medical professional discuss and you'll be informed.