If you can't be open with your husband, why did you marry him? I too had abortions and was afraid to tell my husband. When I finally revealed it to him and explained the circumstances, he held me in my arms and said, "Why wouldn't I love you anymore?" "Of course I love you". He felt compassion for me, not anger. Trust your husband's love for you. That is why you married him! Additionally, let me say that you are suffering from Post Traumatic Stress and a heavy guilt burden.
What about if you had a miscarriage, can your doctor tell from blood work he has you do for a regular checkup.?
If I had a miscarriage I've read that you like continue to bleed 2 weeks after it occurs, I was originally going to have a medical abortion and had the appointment for this week can i still go to it and see if everything came out and nothing stayed inside because I heard that if you are still bleeding by the time your appointment comes planned parenthood won't be able to see you, then what do I do.?
If I had a miscarriage I've read that you like continue to bleed 2 weeks after it occurs, I was originally going to have a medical abortion and had the appointment for this week can i still go to it and see if everything came out and nothing stayed inside because I heard that if you are still bleeding by the time your appointment comes planned parenthood won't be able to see you, then what do I do.?
Don't hide it. This happened to you before you knew your husband existed. Go into the marriage with a clean slate. This way you can give your husband your all.
I think your husband should know about the abortions. You can give him your all if you live without fear. This was something that happened in your life before you knew he existed. if he can't accept the whole broken you then it wasn't meant to be. Confess your sins to your maker and tell your doctor. You could have a weaker cervix or any number of issues from the procedure that was performed to abort the fetus
I'm 21, married to my husband for 2 years. Had an abortion on my 18th birthday, after being raped. I have felt so guilty for mine and when I got married, I started becoming really distant from my husband and didn't want to sleep together or anything. I finally broke down after a horrible fight over nothing and told him. I didn't want to break down the wall but I did and we have never been stronger. He is my rock. I'm so glad you have someone that loves you and was there with open arms. I try so hard to push my situation out of my head and forgot everything about all of it, but when I am reminded, he holds me and cries with me and I am so thankful for him! Now I just have to work on forgiving myself. :)
Honey, if you are still pregnant, please don't have this abortion! Sometimes, after an abortion, a woman will regret it and I don't want that happening to you. Please, go see your local crisis pregnancy center for advice and what to do with the child before you do something risky. Also, if you have miscarried/had the abortion and you are in deep emotional pain please call this number for a post abortive healing group 866-482-5433
Hello. Can a doctor tell if you have had an miscarriage or abortion years ago?! I'm not sure but I think I had one years ago without even noticing. I've never been to the gin ecologist but I want to go now and make sure about that. Can they let me know?
For all the women that dont want your husbands to know. First thing in a long lasting marriage is honesty. He will respect you more for telling him the truth than if he finds out later by doctors or someone else. If you cant be honest with him then you should reconsider marriage with this person. Just my thoughts.
I just want to know if I have a abortion and lie and to my boyfriend and say I had a miscarriage he will want to take me to the hospital will they be able to tell the difference no lectures please
Since you've worked at a women's clinic.this post.is just for you. I've been in and out of my ob and er for a few weeks.with cramping aND bleeding. They told me at I was risk for.a miscarriage. I went to get an abortion yesterday( in a different state and paid cash )cuz I just knew something was wrong anyway. The Dr opened my cervix saidthat tissue was already coming out and I would have lost it within 48 hours. I believe him 100 percent. The problem is that my ex's family is crazy and I want them to not know about the abortion especially since I was gonna lose it anyway so I was planning on going to my ob in about 10 days with the hope that when she listens for the heartbeat and does an ultrasound she just thinks I miscarried. Will my ob be able to tell from the ultrasound that I aborted and not miscarried ??????
Okay, I know this situation is difficult and probably even terrifying for you, but an abortion really wouldn't be a wise thing to do. Sometimes after an abortion, a woman could regret it (if you look up silent no more, you'll find testimonies from women who regret their abortions.) Instead of aborting, go see your local crisis pregnancy center. They have free ultra sounds, people who can help you figure out your options and what to do with the child, and provide free resources like diapers and bibs. That's all I have to say. Good luck!
I believe that is judgmental. Remember not your courage is everyone's courage.
Does a medical abortion looks like you had a normal miscarriage
Guess the innovative entry baby is the only one who could cast the first stone and of course Jesus!
So your doctor won't be able to tell if you miscarried or aborted?