Ok i'm 13 and i started when i was 12, but for the last 3 weeks I have been masterbating 3 to 5 times a day. Is there something wrong with me?
That's normal for you to want to do that at your age - It's a hormone thing that you just gonna grow out. Just stop doing it when if it start to become painful.
i started masturbating young and i still cant stop, it's really just a release.
try hard not to masterbate man, trust me; it will only make your confidence weaker. Wetdreams dont really workout for me so i just aim to do it 2 times on the weekends, save your energy for school.
Heyy dude , I know a way to stop this ugly thing .
you have to be strong because its not that easy
Now , first of all delete every kind of porno vids and pics you have (this step could be made after your last masturbation because you'll feel guilty so you that will make you feel better)
After You Delete them try to go to somewhere that don't have internet and stay there as long as you can
if you don't have another house just try to hangout with your friends , watch tv or play some pc games
another important thing to do is to watch young kids ( 2 to 4 years )
NEVER watch or do anything that can make you turned on because you will fail
Make a list of your performances for example :
2 days without masterbating DONE
4 days without masterbating DONE
7 days without masterbating
15 days without masterbating
1 Mounth without masterbating
2 Mounth without masterbating
once you complete the first 3 months you can be proud of yourself
When you do the steps above you will save more memories in your mind and your mind will erase the saved porno clips from your mind
and when you feel turned on you'll remember the performances you made so that will make fighting much easier and if it doesn't work try to listen to music try to go contact with other people like talkin to your bro or sis call your friend anything but you have to be strong because I know that feeling when I feel turned on ... it's so hard .
if you do it in your bed then don't go to bed until you are xsosted and if you use your imagination to sleep try to think about some other things and try to stay away from porno clips for example think about you're a super hero or think about what are you up to tomorrow or anything that can keep you calm and not turned on
Some Hard Times You will face :
the first week will be the hardest because your changing the routine of your life but it might be easier if you stay busy
in the period between the first week and the second week you may have wet dreams and it's very normal because your body is trying to fight you but if you beat him it will give up but you may have some turned on dreams in the first 2 months but after it
Don't feel guilty if had a wet dream be happy because you finished the hard steps
One last thing , NEVER Trust people who say " Masturbating is healthy " because it's so not . it's ugly and it causes some really bad side effects .
Always Remember : if you're in the toilet or if your taking a shower and you felt turned on Just SLAP your self
make a promise to god to never do it again RIGHT NOW
and I promise he will help you and support you and give you power just like me
I'm not that strict guy and I don't a lot about God but I asked him for help in the first time in my life and he responded my pray :-)
Do you know that masturbation can cause a very bad smell comes from your penis ?? (if you're a man)
Do you know that masterbation cause low vision and loose of stamina in your body ??
Do you know that masturbating is an addiction ? addiction is weakness .. Your STRONG and so You must FIGHT IT !!
MASTERBATING IS BAD !! SO BAD !!
you have to be strong because its not that easy
Now , first of all delete every kind of porno vids and pics you have (this step could be made after your last masturbation because you'll feel guilty so you that will make you feel better)
After You Delete them try to go to somewhere that don't have internet and stay there as long as you can
if you don't have another house just try to hangout with your friends , watch tv or play some pc games
another important thing to do is to watch young kids ( 2 to 4 years )
NEVER watch or do anything that can make you turned on because you will fail
Make a list of your performances for example :
2 days without masterbating DONE
4 days without masterbating DONE
7 days without masterbating
15 days without masterbating
1 Mounth without masterbating
2 Mounth without masterbating
once you complete the first 3 months you can be proud of yourself
When you do the steps above you will save more memories in your mind and your mind will erase the saved porno clips from your mind
and when you feel turned on you'll remember the performances you made so that will make fighting much easier and if it doesn't work try to listen to music try to go contact with other people like talkin to your bro or sis call your friend anything but you have to be strong because I know that feeling when I feel turned on ... it's so hard .
if you do it in your bed then don't go to bed until you are xsosted and if you use your imagination to sleep try to think about some other things and try to stay away from porno clips for example think about you're a super hero or think about what are you up to tomorrow or anything that can keep you calm and not turned on
Some Hard Times You will face :
the first week will be the hardest because your changing the routine of your life but it might be easier if you stay busy
in the period between the first week and the second week you may have wet dreams and it's very normal because your body is trying to fight you but if you beat him it will give up but you may have some turned on dreams in the first 2 months but after it
Don't feel guilty if had a wet dream be happy because you finished the hard steps
One last thing , NEVER Trust people who say " Masturbating is healthy " because it's so not . it's ugly and it causes some really bad side effects .
Always Remember : if you're in the toilet or if your taking a shower and you felt turned on Just SLAP your self
make a promise to god to never do it again RIGHT NOW
and I promise he will help you and support you and give you power just like me
I'm not that strict guy and I don't a lot about God but I asked him for help in the first time in my life and he responded my pray :-)
Do you know that masturbation can cause a very bad smell comes from your penis ?? (if you're a man)
Do you know that masterbation cause low vision and loose of stamina in your body ??
Do you know that masturbating is an addiction ? addiction is weakness .. Your STRONG and so You must FIGHT IT !!
MASTERBATING IS BAD !! SO BAD !!
Anonymous wrote:
Heyy dude , I know a way to stop this ugly thing .
Hey dude...The part about God is so true. Its nearly impossible without God. Its not right to masterbate..I mean you feel guilty afterwords. and remember the WORLD thinks its normal but God knows he intended sexual feelings for a reason and thats to multiply. Its hard,,trust me I KNOW. I've been trying..failed. tried failed yet again,but I just made a promise to God. All things are possible with His help. May we all stop before we loose the pleasure feeling when we are with our spouces...
Ok. The replies on this pissed me off to no end, so I thought I'd clarify some things.
Also, I'm female, so keep in mind that the things I'm telling you are not coming from a dude and that my experience with masturbation is much different from your own. I'm 21 years old and have been married since April to a wonderful guy. I'm saying this also because I don't want you to think this is coming from some adolescent incapable of understanding the way "things work". I'm quite intelligent, and do know quite a bit about sexual aspects of life through study and classes.
Regardless, the following are some things I'd like to point out:
#1. Masturbation is NOT a sin. I am no priest(ess) and to be honest I do not practice Catholicism, though I was baptized Catholic at birth and have read the bible front to back. Masturbation is merely a way of relaxation and meditation to a degree- there may be those that disagree with me, and that is perfectly fine, but I know myself well enough to know that for me, at least - and many others I know of, masturbation does relax the body and mind. It allows an escape from the everyday stresses that everyone undergoes - and it doesn't require drugs or medications to work! Besides, there are a lot of things mentioned in the bible that - due to the way the world has changed since the days pen was put to paper to write this very eloquent piece of work - priests and pastors dismiss. Understand that the authors of the bible were merely writing parables and stories that were of their time, of which many are merely guidelines of the 10 Commandments - to treat people with respect and honor. Masturbation is definitely not a sin therefore, and if there are those that want to go on to say that "if you masturbate you will be destined for the second level of hell, Lust!" well I say "pshh" you're not harming anyone else, and as a victim of rape in the past, I can surely say that the man who violated me will go there, but I definitely don't see why anyone who's merely masturbating will be put in the same place. Get off your high horses people and wake up to the modern world! Things have changed! (I know that may be beyond many of you, and I'm truly sorry for your ignorance) Also, if you're saying that "God" gave us sexual feelings to merely multiply I think you must be kidding yourself. What about those individuals who are incapable of carrying children full term or carrying children at all - so then God must have given those people sexual feelings merely to be the mean kid in the lunch line at school who takes the last cookie. Right?
#2. Masturbation does not take away from your future sex life. Like I mentioned before, I am happily married (recently) to an army man. He's gone for 4-8 months at a time 1-2 times a year... a very long time to go without any pleasure in that regard... if I held out masturbating for the entirety of his next deployment, I'd most likely weigh 180 lbs when he came back from gorging myself on chocolate! (I'm 5'0... 180 is kinda big for someone my height) Maybe those idiots who say that it is taking away from their sex life are merely masturbating in place of having bed time with their significant other. Though there are times when my husband or I are just not in the mood and the other merely masturbates. Much better outcome than being cranky from the lack of.
#3. As long as masturbation is NOT taking up study or work time or time that you truly need to spend on other things than I see no reason why you can't do it. On my days off of work and my husband isn't home I do it. I have nothing else to do besides maybe some dishes or laundry and when that's all done I have time to myself. As long as you're not going overboard with it and making your "hand rule your time" you'll be fine.
#4. In the end it's up to you to decide. Don't let others talk you out of doing it because "it's a sin". If you want to stop, merely put your mind to it and stop. It can be difficult but if you persevere you will succeed. Therefore, do what you think is right for you.
Also, I'm female, so keep in mind that the things I'm telling you are not coming from a dude and that my experience with masturbation is much different from your own. I'm 21 years old and have been married since April to a wonderful guy. I'm saying this also because I don't want you to think this is coming from some adolescent incapable of understanding the way "things work". I'm quite intelligent, and do know quite a bit about sexual aspects of life through study and classes.
Regardless, the following are some things I'd like to point out:
#1. Masturbation is NOT a sin. I am no priest(ess) and to be honest I do not practice Catholicism, though I was baptized Catholic at birth and have read the bible front to back. Masturbation is merely a way of relaxation and meditation to a degree- there may be those that disagree with me, and that is perfectly fine, but I know myself well enough to know that for me, at least - and many others I know of, masturbation does relax the body and mind. It allows an escape from the everyday stresses that everyone undergoes - and it doesn't require drugs or medications to work! Besides, there are a lot of things mentioned in the bible that - due to the way the world has changed since the days pen was put to paper to write this very eloquent piece of work - priests and pastors dismiss. Understand that the authors of the bible were merely writing parables and stories that were of their time, of which many are merely guidelines of the 10 Commandments - to treat people with respect and honor. Masturbation is definitely not a sin therefore, and if there are those that want to go on to say that "if you masturbate you will be destined for the second level of hell, Lust!" well I say "pshh" you're not harming anyone else, and as a victim of rape in the past, I can surely say that the man who violated me will go there, but I definitely don't see why anyone who's merely masturbating will be put in the same place. Get off your high horses people and wake up to the modern world! Things have changed! (I know that may be beyond many of you, and I'm truly sorry for your ignorance) Also, if you're saying that "God" gave us sexual feelings to merely multiply I think you must be kidding yourself. What about those individuals who are incapable of carrying children full term or carrying children at all - so then God must have given those people sexual feelings merely to be the mean kid in the lunch line at school who takes the last cookie. Right?
#2. Masturbation does not take away from your future sex life. Like I mentioned before, I am happily married (recently) to an army man. He's gone for 4-8 months at a time 1-2 times a year... a very long time to go without any pleasure in that regard... if I held out masturbating for the entirety of his next deployment, I'd most likely weigh 180 lbs when he came back from gorging myself on chocolate! (I'm 5'0... 180 is kinda big for someone my height) Maybe those idiots who say that it is taking away from their sex life are merely masturbating in place of having bed time with their significant other. Though there are times when my husband or I are just not in the mood and the other merely masturbates. Much better outcome than being cranky from the lack of.
#3. As long as masturbation is NOT taking up study or work time or time that you truly need to spend on other things than I see no reason why you can't do it. On my days off of work and my husband isn't home I do it. I have nothing else to do besides maybe some dishes or laundry and when that's all done I have time to myself. As long as you're not going overboard with it and making your "hand rule your time" you'll be fine.
#4. In the end it's up to you to decide. Don't let others talk you out of doing it because "it's a sin". If you want to stop, merely put your mind to it and stop. It can be difficult but if you persevere you will succeed. Therefore, do what you think is right for you.
Dude it will be very easy to stop masturbating , just decide to do stop , the only advice i have for u is stop
p thinking and looking at pornographic material that will excite you . if u abstain from such things you will stop masturbating
p thinking and looking at pornographic material that will excite you . if u abstain from such things you will stop masturbating
no i do it to and im the same age
Listen all im saying is it could ruin relation ships, Dont lose who you are....
No it's normal but it does feel good don't go too hard
coo, man life changing thx soo much guy read this and do waht he says is really good info
dude i starded masterbating when i was like 7 or 8 but its so normal for you to do that i masterbate once a day and its because lf uor hormones so it typicaly normal
What's your phone number send . M e pics. :):)
Tbh nothin wrong with it