I am a female. I haven't had sex or sexual contact in almost two years for my religious beliefs. I feel like I made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I actually got caught up one day when I went to visit a new friend. I don't know to much at all about him, things just got a little out of hand. To make a long story short, we did not have sex but he did finger me very forcefully and he spit on my clitoris while he was fingering me. My private area feels really sore and I actually bled a little. I know this might seem stupid and pretty immature but I feel horrible. I feel like I kind of degraded myself and let God down. Now I have so many thoughts racing threw my head. Is it possible for me to contract a sexually transmitted disease from his saliva? I don't think he has anything but like I said I don't know him tooo well. He didn't have any cold sores or any other sore like marks on his body... Do you think I should get tested? This happened today so should I wait a couple of weeks?