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CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

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Kate Smith answered this Young Man Able To Get An Erection Alone, But Not When With Your Partner?
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Guest

I have the exact same problem glad am not he only one tbh same everything 2 shes experienced am not i was nervous af and I get hard af but when she naked and waiting there for meach to f**k her just get soft and she thinks it her andad its just like wtf world

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Guest

I think you are right!...i use to be 100% when i first met my girl,and now 3 years in im having trouble with being attracted to her and getting it up.i do watch porn and i have to stop.I do get up to porn and i believe it would get up to someone different

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Guest

I'm 17 and have been with my girl for 10 months and we had a pretty good sex life and all of a sudden I can't keep it up. I love her and care for her no doubt and so does she. But I can't keep an erection it will be hard when we start off messing around but when I take it out and it starts to go soft. Idk what to do because I could perform just fine all the other times but now it's having trouble. I think she's sexy as hell but there's something wrong with me. Help please
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Guest

You are an amazing person for putting so much effort in helping others like myself in this situation. Thank you I'll erease my doubts, and clear my memories of "failure". Thanks again.
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Guest

Ok so I have exact problem and have a masturbation problem to and I think that plus that stress and anxiety of not being enough it what causes it it.. cause that last time with my girl I hadn't masturbation in a few days and kinda wasn't thinking bout anything and I got pretty hard so I think just really try and not masturbation (which is hard) and just relax when your with her
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Guest

Dude just relax. I think that it's anxiousness. You want it so bad in the mind but blood not flowing where it need to. Trust me it happens to the best of us. Your not taking any other drugs are you? Cocaine will leave you looking for that thang.lol no but seriously. I think you're fine. If it becomes frequent then and only then will I seek a physician. Make sure you use protection
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Guest

hahaha how many people are having PIED (porn induced erectile dysfunction). its funny, i was in that confused state couple of years ago. it is hell not to have an erection with girl but have it with porn. it is not performance anxiety, or at least it is not only performance anxiety. in other words you can completely remove anxiety and PIED still operates.

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Guest

I feel better knowing that I'm not the only one with this problem. I'm sixteen, and I typically get erections often and can masturbate without a problem. When I'm with my girl, I can get one but it often goes after I put the condom on. We've had to resort to grinding and using our hands. I hope it's just anxiety.
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bare parchment

It helps if she tries this to keep you aroused while you are putting on the condom. Even have her put it on. Just need ways to stay excited.
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Guest

Camagra, ages 18+ take a hour b4 sex, its cheap and works great.... No its not Viagra
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Guest

Your too use toung it alone, my guess, I had the same problem, my best solution is that u will just have to be doing it with her for a long time before you orgasim, which is not to bad, try not to master bait for a wile, till it's easy and hard enuff to do it any ware
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Guest

To, not toung
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Guest

How do I reply to him? Also I said in a bother reply I said "Your too use to it alone, my guess, I had the same problem, my best solution is that u will just have to be doing it with her for a long time before you orgasim, which is not to bad, try not to master bait for a wile, till it's easy and hard enuff to do it any ware "
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Guest

Another not bother
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Guest

I am very worried when i read all this post but yet i get no direct answer to the problem on boad, anyway i have atleast understood that i should'nt wactch porn and masturbate agains my self, it will be difficult but i will do it, i will stop to do what caused my problem, i want to have real sex now.

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