Even when she is naked,i fail to erect yet i love her so much.Any advice?
Hello my dear, I can really understand your problem because it is very common problem these days. You should not take stress and anxiety due to this problem because you will find a solution for sure. There can be many reasons when you face such situations of erectile dysfunction on your first time. The main reason for this issue is performance pressure and stress on your mind that you will be able to satisfy your girlfriend or not. Most of the guys face such problems of stress and anxiety in the first time and you should not take stress for it. If you are able to find it normal when you are alone, you do not have any problem of erectile dysfunction. Maybe you are unable to feel the feeling when you are with your girlfriend and you are thinking for something else. I suggest you to take it normal and you should not take any kind of stress when you are with your girlfriend. You should give more time to foreplay if you want to find it normal. It is very important to relax and feel comfortable when you are with her. Your body is not ready completely because you have to be ready physically as well as mentally. You do not need any medical services for it because it is completely normal for you and you will find it normal after your first sex. This difficulty will be only during your first sex because you are not experienced and then you will find it completely normal like masturbation. I will suggest you control your habit of masturbation because your body is more familiar to masturbation as compared to natural sex.
Go f**k somebody else ! Your not doing it for him/her anymore . That may be blunt but its true .
Same thing used to happen to me. I kinda turned my back on the community after I finally got over it but I’ll give you advice. I went about a year feeling like sh*t because I was unable to have sex I tried to look at viagra but it was way too much and dangerous then I kind of gave up hope. I don’t want to sound conceited but I’m not a guy people consider lame or anything. Im a popular guy in my high school (senior) I go to all the parties I have hot girls hitting me up (letting you know that any kind of guy goes through this even the ones you think are slaying). All my buddies thought I was swimming in p***y but I was too nervous to put myself in those situations. I no lie missed out on 2 oppurtunities at a 3 some even though I still got double blowjobs from the girls. In a year alone I missed out on 8 different girls before I finally found a solution. I did a lot of research and thought i could be watching to much porn (I probably do but I’m having sex now and I still watch porn daily). I thought it coulda been because I drank too much because I was partying or clubbing 2 nights every weekend and I have slowed down a bit because I found a good girl and we’re dating. Plus Tennessee gets a little lame this time of year. None of those solved my problem though. I finally thought about how easy it was to get hard when I’m jacking off and how I was soft while watching porn or thinking about girls until I actually started jerking. But when I was trying to have sex it was kind of weird to jack off to get hard cause the girl is watching you and blowjobs don’t get me 100% turned on so I would only have a semi hard on but not enough to penetrate. I thought I was the only person in the world with this problem and I thought I would never find a solution until I was old enough to get viagra. Finally I decided to try lube and it’s what worked. I know it sounds simple or weird but the fact is that it’s all in your head the answer is just as simple as the problem. I was so worried about rather or not I would be great at sex that it wouldn’t escape my mind. Lube is like when you jack off with lotion (it gets you rock solid fast) except it feels a lot better and it’s supposed to be used during sex. You can get it in the condom section at Walmart and just tell the girl you like to use it because it makes it easier to get inside and she won’t even know you have a anxiety issue. Ive slept with 7 girls so far and none have felt weird about it cause it actually makes them feel more pleasure and less pain. Some girls even need to use it if they have issues getting wet. I was nervous to use it at first but its the best decision I’ve made because now I’m not depressed about it anymore. I keep a bottle in the console of my truck (I’m from Tennessee so I drive a truck) in case i get in a situation where I need it. I know lube seems like a weird solution or that it’s to simple to actually work but I promise you need to try it. I was in the exact same situation as you a year ago.
Very true,stop murstabation and don't watch porn ,unfriend colleagues who dress exposing there bodies.
and you should not feel guilty about anything in sez bcoz its astimulation which happens and both have to get invloved in doing this .
Yes once you will have intercourse you will be easy to go forever without any hesitation doing so