OK! i'm 22, and have been having erection problems for some time now. I'm fairly convinced that watching porn has totally done me in. In fact, I've talked to some friends and they feel the same way. I feel that I have conditioned myself to expect erections due to some stimulation from watching porn. Porn stars are, unfortunetly hotter than most girls, and why wouldn't one gravitate towards the hotest ones?
Sometimes I can have great sex and no problems, but more often now I feel like my anxiety is taking over. I know physically I'm fine cuz I get hard in the morning kinda regularly. So i don't think it's constricted blood flow or anything. but my anxiety and the feeling that it wont happen and the embarassment of it just f**ks me up!!! So now, I'm stuck, no matter what with the anxiety. I've tried to use online pills even (reputed ones like Nasutra which was found to have the ingredient of viagra) and it help drastically, but then, it's still up to my physical end to get the blood flowing isn't it?
MY QUESTION: why the hell do I have random erections but when I need them they are GONE! I'm planning on getting Viagra online....I feel that I just have to get in the swing of it with my girlfriend (yes she's understanding but to a point eventually) and I'll get past the porn. Are the sideeffects goings to be soooooo drastic?
Sometimes I can have great sex and no problems, but more often now I feel like my anxiety is taking over. I know physically I'm fine cuz I get hard in the morning kinda regularly. So i don't think it's constricted blood flow or anything. but my anxiety and the feeling that it wont happen and the embarassment of it just f**ks me up!!! So now, I'm stuck, no matter what with the anxiety. I've tried to use online pills even (reputed ones like Nasutra which was found to have the ingredient of viagra) and it help drastically, but then, it's still up to my physical end to get the blood flowing isn't it?
MY QUESTION: why the hell do I have random erections but when I need them they are GONE! I'm planning on getting Viagra online....I feel that I just have to get in the swing of it with my girlfriend (yes she's understanding but to a point eventually) and I'll get past the porn. Are the sideeffects goings to be soooooo drastic?
Actually I did some looking around and talking to my doctor. Your not having andy problems ( as I have similar problems at this time, and Im nearly 22 myself ).
Morning erections are a good sign though. That does confirm your not have physical problems ( found out that guys have erections reguardless of the dreams they are having ) The porn issue ( something I have problems with also...Im fine when watching porn, but when needing one/wanting one , not much happenes ) may contribute to your problem, but isnt going to be the final factor.
Overall, ( and this was found both in reserching and by speaking to my doctor ) erections cant be "called upon" and you cant "force" yourself to have one at will without fantasizing or touching in some fashion. Your most likly just stressing to much or having higher than normal anxiety. Also consider any medications your on, or have been on within the last 6 months. Depression can also affect ya if thats a problem. Alcohol, will all but kill any erections, and even something like the air tempature can effect if/how big and erection can occur.
In my case, I have the starting effects of becoming diabetic which will serverly inhibit erections. It all plays out to factors that deal with personailty and/or stress and your health. A lot of it is going to be mind games that SHOULD be pass, and Viagra is gonna trigger chemical and physical triggers that are specifally designed to give erections ( which if those help then the might get your body back in the swing on things. )
You might try to take a "Men's Vitamin", I found that to help a considerable amount as my diet is anything but good
Morning erections are a good sign though. That does confirm your not have physical problems ( found out that guys have erections reguardless of the dreams they are having ) The porn issue ( something I have problems with also...Im fine when watching porn, but when needing one/wanting one , not much happenes ) may contribute to your problem, but isnt going to be the final factor.
Overall, ( and this was found both in reserching and by speaking to my doctor ) erections cant be "called upon" and you cant "force" yourself to have one at will without fantasizing or touching in some fashion. Your most likly just stressing to much or having higher than normal anxiety. Also consider any medications your on, or have been on within the last 6 months. Depression can also affect ya if thats a problem. Alcohol, will all but kill any erections, and even something like the air tempature can effect if/how big and erection can occur.
In my case, I have the starting effects of becoming diabetic which will serverly inhibit erections. It all plays out to factors that deal with personailty and/or stress and your health. A lot of it is going to be mind games that SHOULD be pass, and Viagra is gonna trigger chemical and physical triggers that are specifally designed to give erections ( which if those help then the might get your body back in the swing on things. )
You might try to take a "Men's Vitamin", I found that to help a considerable amount as my diet is anything but good
Its true, erection anxiety can be gotten over very quickly - best to go easy on yourself. I had this issue for a while and randomly discoverd a meditation technique that rid me of the problem. Completely and utterly. Its called Vippassana - there are a few centres scattered throughout the world***
- This is not a light option and has no guarantee to work initially, so make sure you understand what you're getting yourself into beforehand. In fact, an approach to explore your 'inner' being is far more important than just getting a fix for your worries. A whole lot more.
Actually, I intentionally googled this post to make these comments. Hopefully they'll inspire someone. *****
- This is not a light option and has no guarantee to work initially, so make sure you understand what you're getting yourself into beforehand. In fact, an approach to explore your 'inner' being is far more important than just getting a fix for your worries. A whole lot more.
Actually, I intentionally googled this post to make these comments. Hopefully they'll inspire someone. *****
Yes I have gone through this situation myself. Because of watching too much porn I become sexually aroused by simply watching the fluent and exaggerated situations in these films. However, anxiety and depression can also contribute to lack of erection. This occurs when you are about to have intercourse and suddenly loose all libido and feel turned off. My suggestion would be to eat and excersise daily as well as stay away from porn films, and finally keep a positive and healthy mind.