Caught 13 year old son naked with his 13 year old cousin (boy)

I think you should first calm down, and relax.

They are not gay, it's just something kids will do without thinking about consequences.

You should talk to them though, that's a good choice.

If it happens again that's when you really need to get involved, and find out what's going on.

knock first and not just walk in

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Hi, Really?? Why??

It is very normally for humans from 12-30 to be curios about sex it's natural to boys and girls. Usually boys will stfirsts to be curios first the the girls the girls will think its gross but when they grow a little bit more they will be the same it's natural all kids will iventually turn out like that u don't need to worry worry less, less trouble best thing is to just leave them alone they eo not like adults to geinvolve or know what they r doing sexually just take my advises . I haven't experienced this before because I have ton one to do it with to even my girlfriend hates me :( oh yeah and I'm 14 1 year older than ur son I Hing I'm staying this because .........I'm weird ....but not what I said what I said is what a adult would say.;-)

I am gay myself and I will say no this isnt a definate sign that they are gay at all. I did this a few times with close male friends in 7th and 8th grade out of curiosity but i have a few kids i know that are 13 (my fiances younger brother and his friends) and a couple of them are curious about guys, i think its also because people their age also start exploring sexual interests as well so its possible that its curiosity but id just keep an eye on the situation. What they did isnt wrong or bad, just as long as they dont become physically curious

I'm actually 13, and all guys my age are curious like that.

 

I am going to be honest here my good friend these children are young and sexual curiosity happens. If you leave two pre-teens alone in a room a number of things can happen and something did. I do not think they are gay but they could have been just looking at each other and/or touching themselves or each other. My advice is don't leave them alone by themselves again 

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Normal, not gay, and don't start treating them any different. My cousin and I would take my uncles playboy collection and masturbate in front of eachother. Race , compare, ect. My advice is give em a magazine and tissue. They will soon have girlfriends to take care of their curiosity so it will pass!

Nothing to worry about and same-sex/mutual exploration of (sex) body is quite normal - and healthy - development. Did it myself at 12 with my best friend and we even mutually masturbated each other. We both felt stupid for having pursued a natural curiosity and never really repeated it or anything like it, nor spoke of it ever again. And, we remained best friends as before.

So, best to do your own research and then talk to both - together - and explain its natural and nothing to worry about and that you are sorry for having walked-in on them and embarrassed them - and respect their wish for secrecy (I am sure they will ;)

Kudos to you for asking on a blog instead of freaking out and making it worse.

d:)

There have been a lot of cases of young Males doing things like that, it might just mean that they are by-curious or experimenting. Besides, even if they were "gay" all I would say is "don`t tell any of your friends"

Well I am a 13 year old boy that's turning 14 in April and it's natural for boys to do that don't give them any punishment, boys will compare to see how's penis is bigger or who can shoot sperm the farthest or who can sperm the most and see who has most hair it's okay, girls say that boys are weird disgusting creatures but it's normal..... No were not

your reaction to this situation was absolutely ridiculous ... you should have just let them be

It is rare situation to happen, but if it does, you have to enjoy it... I have read so many stories of teenage boys sharing their private parts (in a room, on a trip at night, in bathrooms)... It isn't considered gay and it's natural, but that doesn't mean that should be done often (because even if u are strait, you might like being with some1 your gender). I will tell you what I did ones with my cousin when I was 10. I didn't enjoy it really much because he didn't play very fair...

I was like 10 (my puberty started very early) and my cousin was 15. We were in a room in the morning. My parents were away doing important stuff around the city and my grandma was sleeping. So we were in one room on a bed. We were talking about school and different things but i don't know what happened that we started sharing penises. I touched his while he was looking at his phone and then he touched mine saying that it's short... After that we kinda started masturbating and as we did we made up a game, and it was a challenging one. I still remember it:

- You and him masturbate each other's penis.

- Speed must be equal - if u masturbate faster his penis then he should masturbate faster your penis too and if he masturbates faster, you should masturbate faster too.

- The looser faces it, no stopping - If you ejaculate first he must NOT stop masturbating and if he ejaculates first then u must NOT stop masturbating.

You both stop when the last one ejaculates. However if he doesn't stop masturbating your penis, then u have a choice to stop masturbating his or continue.

Well that is what happened. I ejaculated first and then he did after like 20 seconds. We weren't going really fast - we followed the rhythm of a normal sex. However he didn't stop after I ejaculated and then even if I stopped after he did, he put his other hand on my moth and his leg on my chest and belly. I couldn't move then he started stroking fast walking me through the whole time when muscles are relaxing and my body is getting ready for a next erection...you know how it feels when you continue after ejaculating. So I got an erection again and then ejaculated for 2nd time (notice he didn't stop at all since we started the game). However he even continue after that... How I was feeling?

I was ready to scream and cry and run. I was breathing heavily and sweating from everywhere. My penis was really red and i was feeling like being punished very violently. However i had to enjoy that masturbation because it was the only time I chance of it.

He even covered my eyes so i don't watch after the 2nd erection. He continued and continued and continued... I thought he is gonna make my penis swallow. He said that this will help me in having longer sex with my partner. In the end he stopped when my parents made noise in the other room. He said something like "ok you are lucky today". I am sure he could gone of masturbating me till his both hands swallow.

Oh well, I don't recommend this experience to anyone, cuz it can drive u NUTS!

Yeah thats ok at their substantial age it doesnt really matter and you shouldnt tell that to anyone