Caught 13 year old son naked with his 13 year old cousin (boy)

boys of 13 are ready to find out about sex their hormones have made their bodies ready they can try out kissing and masturbating they should try to find other boys to experiment with feeling and rubbing eavch others willys to see if they like it....et

Did your dad ever find you stroking your pecker. I bet he did. so why make a fuss of it. they are 13. makeing sperms and they need to let it out. do you want your wife to find their spunk on the bed sheets. gee dad let them enjoy themselves having some fun with their peckers like my dad does.

Kids that age are going through a phase where their curios and don't know whether there heterosexual or homosexual.

If you did share it it would ruin both their relationship but not just with eachother, but everyone. They are 13 and it is normal to be curious.

i had a similar situation last night and I walked in on my 12 year old son with his 11 year old cousin doing oral!! Just stay calm and give them the "talk"

yes thay r gay

YES THAY R GAY

if you know that little about children you should NOT be a mother. Calm down . Leave the kids alone. If what you said is true, " i don't care if they are gay or straight" this would not be an issue. You need to stop telling lies to yourself because if it didn't matter to you you would not be "confused and afraid". It's not wrong it's called normal. Go get your tubes tied so you can't screw up another kids life with fear and shame.

You did and still are over-reacting. Analyze your statement about being openminded. I am not sure you really, honestly are.

Anal sex... I'm 15 and that is really gay. Since this is a educated forum ill give my opinipn. When I was thirteen me and my cuz would chill and talk about girls, either there confused or gay.

I did the same when i was 12. Im not gay so i say its normal

Don't be so sure this is just normal everyday boys' curiosity. Couple factors come into play one they we going to experiment what you stated was "anal sex." Two that they were cousins which if blood related holds another concern altogether. Three they obviously have gay overtones sonce they weren't just checking each other out. As for the comment made about circle jerking with other boys rethink that. Most boys that feel more comfortable about sharing their sexual erotic behavior with another boy is mostly like showing early signs of his sexual preference not sexual curiosity. Studies show that men repress their own homosexual thoughts urges and experiences due to lack of being able to accept them. You can see this primarily on the many men that get married and have children only to come out of the closet after finally accepting their true self.  If your able to get aroused surrounded by the same sex chances are you not being quit honest with youself. Now also keep in mind that boys and girls will experiment early stages of their lives to see which side the feel comfortable on but most will have an intense feeling of uneasiness with even the thought of being sexually active with a same sex partner. You say don't address the situation but think about the hell that will eventually occur if you don't. A parent must accept their child no mater what side of the court they play on because this in the end is a part of themselves and unconditional love is their only truth. With that being said a parent or loved one also needs to let their child know they aren't alone and they can talk about whatever because most children that live with a secret as such will be consumed by it without anyone to help them understand it. For example a group of parents discovered their children displayed homosexual tendencies so instead of trying to go out it alone they started an after school group so that the kids with the same tendencies could talk to each other knowing what they all live with.  My feelings on the subject is neither condemn nor condone homosexual behavior but these are last when it comes to my child or love one. As for your situation talking may be more helpful then harm as long as you think clearly about your words.  Don't assume both boys are gay but don't draw a blind eye to it either. We live in a time were taboos and the media have changed the way our society is driven. How many homosexuals are a fade and how many live with the real truth of their existence. A lot of lime light has made everything so easy and doing a taboo so cool as if their own path need be changed. Media has stated you can make heterosexual a homosexual and a homosexual can be heterosexual and say we're just acting. Would you allow your significant other to have sex or make out with another individual on camera and call it acting. Hell no! becuse you made a vow. A straight guy or woman should never play a gay part and vice versa because teaching children to live a lie under a disguise is not acceptable. You will never see a homosexual jump into a straight relationship if they are truly gay because they live with what they are and know who they are. Same with a heterosexual jumping into a homosexual relationship.  So, the gist of my diatribe is that the media is what influences are children and without speaking to them they can't know what is truth or fallac. In the movies and out of the movies so many celebrities are played up by their managers so what your kids see is pure fabrication to make their minds believe what is nothing but painted mirages. And some as in your case maybe like he check out so and so I head this was cool. Hollywood and the media plays up the bi-sexual and homosexual hype that over looks the fact bi-sexuals don't exists and homosexuals aren't some set script. You are what you are but one doesn't learn this to later and even then it is more of an evolution process but one thing that stays firm from beginning to end is your sexual preference. So, in conclusion make sure what is is an not some thought that just was drawn in the mind

YES IT IS TOTALLY NORMAL AND NO IT DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE GAY IT JUST MEANS THEY ARE GOING THROUGH PUBERTY IT IS SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN 89% OF BOYS DO THIS DURING PUBERTY! SO DON'T BE SCARED OR WORRIED IT IS PERFECTLY NORMAL IN THIS STAGE OF THE LIVES!

My middle son, aged 13, often has friends over. I have, more than once, caught them
masturbating each other, and make nothing of it. I did the same at his age, and turned
out just fine. I have told him, though, that it MUST be a mutually agreeable situation.

its normal for them to engage in sexual activitys but maybe not if related when I was about 10 I had sex multiple times with friends but not family I am gay to this day BUT there is nothing wrong with your kids being homo